When we graduate beyond our constant need for approval and validation from the master, he expects us to understand that we should be at one with him, so we also can walk on the storm as he did and deliver people out it....and that even means getting shipwrecked with others like Paul did....
Someone posted a very sure truth...beside the flesh show going on here[I am guilty myself of getting upset and being defensive] it seems things are lost in translation because of the different spiritual maturity levels on this board...
This will absolutely be taken the wrong way and the usual suspects[not you]will pounce on it and use it against me like they do with other things I say, but bears saying....and is a general statement not directed towards anyone...
Sooner or later you have to grow out of the comfy grace diapers and gird yourself up and walk in the authority, power, call, send and anointing that grace purchased for you...the only reason why grace is amazing is so that we become laborers in the harvest....Walking in remembrance of what grace did for you becomes instinctive as you spiritually mature and become one with him...you do not always have to check it out, remind yourself of it...you know, because it is in him we love, move and have our being....
I agree that as we mature, we become more of a listener to Him, and as a result we will live our lives with God living in and through us. Participating in His Kingdom, in Him, and Him in our life.
But that comes out of His love for us. And yes then our love for Him, as a relationship in the Spirit.
Not from what we perceive our good works should be. God might have one thing for us to do, and
one thing only, and if we fail at that one thing He still lets us live in His Kingdom. We may fail because we are so busy doing things that are not from Him, that we fail to listen. Who knows what the reason, but He doesn't kick us out!
People maintain that their works are of God all of the time, when they may not even be from God. I don't say STOP doing that work, it makes no difference to me. Just don't come at me saying I must do those works also, or else I am not a Christian, or I don't know my God. Especially when they don't know me, my heart, or what God's plan is for me.