truly glad you asked that question and thanks for the return hug
I just ate lunch and just want to answer yr question before I get back to work.
this experience was totally against my will, I did nothing to make it happen and I don't know what happened...I was not aware...only aware I was OBE as you say
I was saved and desiring to 'serve' God but quite young. through a family member, we became involved with a well known 'evangelist' (at the time and I won't name him...no purpose to it now and I'm really a pretty private person)
there were suspicions about this individual, but he had hundreds...literally hundreds...of invitations to conduct 'crusades' in Pentecostal churches across the US and some in Canada
I got to know him very well. he was thrown out of his denom and excommunicated. he was a practicing sexual deviant (no...he never touched me but he did slap me across the face one time when I innocently said he looked tired)
there were plenty of strange goings on. my experience was one and many other people suffered things while being involved
years later, when I was counselling with someone and praying with them, another woman and it was just the 2 of us...she had asked for help but I will never go alone again..not even same sex..as I was reading from the Bible and asking her to participate (she was a believer) I felt strange all of a sudden. we were across the living room from each other and I don't remember what she was saying...but I remember the look on her face.
I started to feel as I had when I had the OBE. I immediately shut it all down. She was involved in sexual fantasies and imagined someone in love with her. I was trying to bring her out of that deception. The man whom she fancied in love with her, thought she had mental problems.
it is my experience that those that have sexual demons attached to them have influence over others and some know they have this influence and enjoy it and others are oblivious and as much a victim of the demon as the ones bothered by it. not everyone will be 'bothered'. the Bible is clear that we should run from sexual sins. that is my best advice also
this is not an isolated thing. people are embarrassed to talk about this kind of thing but it is actually common.
I am not saying people are demon possessed. I do not see in scripture where believers are possessed by the devil. Influenced, bothered, even directed by...whatever, but we do know our enemies are spiritual and far more cunning then many will concede.
I don't make it my business to look into things like that, but if you do know something, sometimes someone will ask for help or need counselling.
now that's a long answer and maybe more than you would want to hear, but that's what happened
this same woman that I tried to help was involved in extra-biblical beliefs and loved how so called special knowledge made her feel superior and important. it also turned out that she had had several so called 'spiritual' involvements with men, thinking they were attracted to her or in love with her