O'Reilly is GONE!

[Demi777]

Since when is telling a woman she's hot treating her less than a lady??? I dont get your logic sister I really dont

 

[Tommy379]

I would hit you with a hot frying pan. and then curl your ears with my hair iron

Sounds like fun.

 

[Galatea]

You can bet that when I had a boyfriend I called him hot and told him about his sexy and hot eyes. I wasnt like ''oh nice eyes and oh nice this oh nice this"
I dont have a problem with a not married guy tellin me he thinks Im hot. Just when they start getting primitive and sick.. thats a nogo.
In my opinion your kinda overdoing it. Theres a different between a compliment, flirting and just plain primitive hitting on ppl.

yea like Billy Graham is such a good example by not taking his wife with him

Married men have one woman they can flirt with and date with all they want. Their wife

Your boyfriend is different, of course.

We're talking about a married man, Bill O'Reilly, flirting (or attempting to) with subordinates in the work place. Two bad things, there.

Billy Graham was an evangelist, and traveled extensively. I imagine Ruth stayed at home sometimes to care for their children, five I think. Anyway, he had a very long ministry with no scandal- so that is a blessing and testimony to his prudence.

I think married men SHOULD flirt with their wives, it would probably make their marriages happier. I wonder if men who flirt with women at work say nice tnings to their wives at home. It would be a shame to waste his charm on a woman making fun of him instead of saying sweet or sexy things to his wife who loves him.

 

[Demi777]

Sounds like fun.

 

[Willie-T]

Well, Demi, I am married and old (so that automatically makes me "creepy" according to some women on here) and I think you are as cute as a bug. I also think Melita is a beautiful person, inside and out.... and she is soon to be married to the son of a beautiful friend on here.

I thank God for women who know who they are, and are comfortable with that... and also with being complimented for being the beautiful women they are.

 

[Galatea]

Since when is telling a woman she's hot treating her less than a lady??? I dont get your logic sister I really dont

Hot implies something different than beautiful, pretty, or lovely. Hot is sexual, the others are not. Being told you are "hot" is different. I just hate that appellation. I work with a man who calls me "Rapunzel" and "Young Lady". His nicknames for the teachers are benign.

Do you really not get the connotation?

 

[Demi777]

Men will be men. and if they think a woman is sexy, they will most likely just say it. The things he said werent THAT bad. Theres much worse going on in communities.

Your boyfriend is different, of course.

We're talking about a married man, Bill O'Reilly, flirting (or attempting to) with subordinates in the work place. Two bad things, there.

Billy Graham was an evangelist, and traveled extensively. I imagine Ruth stayed at home sometimes to care for their children, five I think. Anyway, he had a very long ministry with no scandal- so that is a blessing and testimony to his prudence.

I think married men SHOULD flirt with their wives, it would probably make their marriages happier. I wonder if men who flirt with women at work say nice tnings to their wives at home. It would be a shame to waste his charm on a woman making fun of him instead of saying sweet or sexy things to his wife who loves him.

 

[Demi777]

Sex is a part of life xD its a part of being us. Hot is not JUST sexual. Take it with pride that your attractive sis. Dont you see that theres nothing wrong with that!

Hot implies something different than beautiful, pretty, or lovely. Hot is sexual, the others are not. Being told you are "hot" is different. I just hate that appellation. I work with a man who calls me "Rapunzel" and "Young Lady". His nicknames for the teachers are benign.

Do you really not get the connotation?

 

[Demi777]

awww big ((huuuuuuugggs)) your lookin good for ur age too hehe
Really Melita is getting married? thats awesome!!

Well, Demi, I am married and old (so that automatically makes me "creepy" according to some women on here) and I think you are as cute as a bug. I also think Melita is a beautiful person, inside and out.... and she is soon to be married to the son of a beautiful friend on here.

I thank God for women who know who they are, and are comfortable with that... and also with being complimented for being the beautiful women they are.

 

[Demi777]

Getting told your hot is NOT like someone telling you that u look like a prostitute. Theres a vast difference there. Dont mix that.

 

[Galatea]

Men will be men. and if they think a woman is sexy, they will most likely just say it. The things he said werent THAT bad. Theres much worse going on in communities.

I don't think you understand the full implication of the comments coming from Bill O'Reilly. He was like a boss. Anything flirty from a boss is a WHOLE other kettle of fish than comments coming from an underling.

For example, if the boss says a woman is sexy- that is threatening. It implies that if there is no reciprocation, your job might be on the line. The boss is supposed to be in a different strata than the peons.

Am I the only one who sees this?

 

[Tommy379]

Your boyfriend is different, of course.

We're talking about a married man, Bill O'Reilly, flirting (or attempting to) with subordinates in the work place. Two bad things, there.

Billy Graham was an evangelist, and traveled extensively. I imagine Ruth stayed at home sometimes to care for their children, five I think. Anyway, he had a very long ministry with no scandal- so that is a blessing and testimony to his prudence.

I think married men SHOULD flirt with their wives, it would probably make their marriages happier. I wonder if men who flirt with women at work say nice tnings to their wives at home. It would be a shame to waste his charm on a woman making fun of him instead of saying sweet or sexy things to his wife who loves him.

What if your wife tells you not to talk to her? Am I still bad?

On another note, I may not know what flirting is. It usually goes like this:
"You're looking lovely today. Did you change your hair? I love it................ Yes your granddaughter is gorgeous, but you're way too young to be a grandmother............. So did you get a chance to look at the requisition form?"

 

[Galatea]

Sex is a part of life xD its a part of being us. Hot is not JUST sexual. Take it with pride that your attractive sis. Dont you see that theres nothing wrong with that!

I find it distasteful. I prefer beautiful, pretty, or the very best of all- lovely.

Hot is not that complimentary, in my opinion.

It's also unimaginative as everyone says it nowadays.

 

[Galatea]

What if your wife tells you not to talk to her? Am I still bad?

On another note, I may not know what flirting is. It usually goes like this:
"You're looking lovely today. Did you change your hair? I love it................ Yes your granddaughter is gorgeous, but you're way too young to be a grandmother............. So did you get a chance to look at the requisition form?"

I would say that you need to go to counseling with her to see why she doesn't want to talk to you.

If I were the secretary and you fed me the line about being too young to be a grandmother, I would say "you need to get your eyes checked". And then tell you that you don't have to flatter me to get your requisition form.

 

[Tommy379]

Hot implies something different than beautiful, pretty, or lovely. Hot is sexual, the others are not. Being told you are "hot" is different. I just hate that appellation. I work with a man who calls me "Rapunzel" and "Young Lady". His nicknames for the teachers are benign.

Do you really not get the connotation?

I'm pretty sure I've called females on this forum hot. I'm pretty sure they "liked" my comment. I'm also certain that I didn't want sex from any of them.

 

[Tommy379]

I would say that you need to go to counseling with her to see why she doesn't want to talk to you.

If I were the secretary and you fed me the line about being too young to be a grandmother, I would say "you need to get your eyes checked". And then tell you that you don't have to flatter me to get your requisition form.

I'm sure you'd be a blast at the Christmas party.

 

[Galatea]

I'm pretty sure I've called females on this forum hot. I'm pretty sure they "liked" my comment. I'm also certain that I didn't want sex from any of them.

This is a bit removed from real life, you know.

Don't you think it would be better for your marriage to talk to your wife rather than talking to random women online? I mean, it's a lot of energy wasted on women you don't want that could be channeled toward the woman you DO want, your wife.

I mean, would it hurt your feelings if you found out your wife was spending time flirting with random men online rather than talking to you?

 

[Willie-T]

I find it distasteful. I prefer beautiful, pretty, or the very best of all- lovely.

Hot is not that complimentary, in my opinion.

It's also unimaginative as everyone says it nowadays.

Then since it may not be his opinion that he is saying anything wrong, you don't think you have the responsibility to tell him that you only appreciate the things you approve of when being complimented, like the words you used in that first line above?

We have a gal at church who is huge in the chest, and loves to wear low, low, low cut blouses. And you can be almost positive that she will bring up being ogled at least every other week in conversation with other women. My wife, who is not real big in that department, is pretty much disgusted with her constant hypocrisy.

 

[Tommy379]

This thread has gotten fun. When Willie and Demi show up, it's a party.

 

[Tommy379]

This is a bit removed from real life, you know.

Don't you think it would be better for your marriage to talk to your wife rather than talking to random women online? I mean, it's a lot of energy wasted on women you don't want that could be channeled toward the woman you DO want, your wife.

I mean, would it hurt your feelings if you found out your wife was spending time flirting with random men online rather than talking to you?

I'm here cause my wife won't talk to me....... mostly because she rather flirt with other men online. I would find it odd yet entertaining if she were flirting with other women online.