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Gena_rose

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prayers right now in my process to become a better woman. I have a strong desire to become a successful independent woman. I've had set backs which did not allow me to obtain a proper education throughout the years. just this month I enrolled into a online high schooling which would Allow me to obtain my diploma in 1 1/2 years or less . i'm not use to schooling which is keeping me a bit inconsistent with my work . some day's I wake up embarresed and ashamed of having to start over on everything I should have learned through the years . sometimes I feel so hopeless and stupid , feeling as though all my goals and aspirations will never be obtained . I just want to be Great. i want to make an impact on this world . i thank God for my struggles knowing i'll one day be able to help someone going through the same things i have .this is all so hard wanting to take things into my own hands , trust in the worlds lies of how; i'll never graduate , i'll never amount to anything
or be good enough for certain people is what i struggle with so much. i pray everyday and try and leave everything at God's feet but everything continues to hit me throughout the day of how worthless and stupid I feel. I would love to have support and encouragement from anyone to just help me to continue on . I don't have many people in my life to be here and ask for help , i'm so alone right now a lot of my peers are getting ready to graduate and I feel left behind.
 
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Gena_rose said:
prayers right now in my process to become a better woman. I have a strong desire to become a successful independent woman. I've had set backs which did not allow me to obtain a proper education throughout the years. just this month I enrolled into a online high schooling which would Allow me to obtain my diploma in 1 1/2 years or less . i'm not use to schooling which is keeping me a bit inconsistent with my work . some day's I wake up embarresed and ashamed of having to start over on everything I should have learned through the years . sometimes I feel so hopeless and stupid , feeling as though all my goals and aspirations will never be obtained . I just want to be Great. i want to make an impact on this world . i thank God for my struggles knowing i'll one day be able to help someone going through the same things i have .this is all so hard wanting to take things into my own hands , trust in the worlds lies of how; i'll never graduate , i'll never amount to anything
or be good enough for certain people is what i struggle with so much. i pray everyday and try and leave everything at God's feet but everything continues to hit me throughout the day of how worthless and stupid I feel. I would love to have support and encouragement from anyone to just help me to continue on . I don't have many people in my life to be here and ask for help , i'm so alone right now a lot of my peers are getting ready to graduate and I feel left behind.
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**** you can do it--- don't go by your feelings, just keep pressing forward-----I went through stuff like that 40 years ago---- keep your eyes on your goal and in the Lord...
 
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Gena_rose said:
prayers right now in my process to become a better woman. I have a strong desire to become a successful independent woman. I've had set backs which did not allow me to obtain a proper education throughout the years. just this month I enrolled into a online high schooling which would Allow me to obtain my diploma in 1 1/2 years or less . i'm not use to schooling which is keeping me a bit inconsistent with my work . some day's I wake up embarresed and ashamed of having to start over on everything I should have learned through the years . sometimes I feel so hopeless and stupid , feeling as though all my goals and aspirations will never be obtained . I just want to be Great. i want to make an impact on this world . i thank God for my struggles knowing i'll one day be able to help someone going through the same things i have .this is all so hard wanting to take things into my own hands , trust in the worlds lies of how; i'll never graduate , i'll never amount to anything
or be good enough for certain people is what i struggle with so much. i pray everyday and try and leave everything at God's feet but everything continues to hit me throughout the day of how worthless and stupid I feel. I would love to have support and encouragement from anyone to just help me to continue on . I don't have many people in my life to be here and ask for help , i'm so alone right now a lot of my peers are getting ready to graduate and I feel left behind.
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I think it speaks highly of you to go back to school. You should be proud of yourself for this choice. You are taking steps to improve yourself and your life. Don't let some misplaced sense of not being good enough, or being embarrassed, stop you from doing what you desire. It may be difficult but it's doable.
And some of God's favorite types of people are underdogs. So you definitely have His support too. Don't give up. There's more to regret if you give up than there is to deal with getting through it. And regret is Very difficult to get past.
 
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Roughsoul1991

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I'm in the same boat trying to go back to college online. But this time to get my bachelor degree. I'll give you some advice. Once you get this education train rolling, do not stop. As long as you can find the many ways to pay for it, keep going. Knowledge is power and key to being successful in today's standards.

I been out of school for 5 years and really intimidated. I'll just say do not take on more than you can chew. Create good study habits and see each test as an opportunity to excel. Homework usually is your best way to pass. This way when you take your test and studied for your test, even if it was a hard test all of your homework grades would save you.
 
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Lol, like most ladies = you are trying to do everything in a day. Chill out, know that God loves you and He has forgiven you (what you have repented of) and know love yourself and forgive yourself! Set goals that push you but not so high you can reach them. Get as many HEALTHY ppl around you to speak life in to you and celebrate your success with you! I'm sure chocolate will be close by during the celebrations;)
 
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Lord we pray for Gena_rose, let you please hold her hand, and bless to live a worhty life for you in the world, remove all the negative things, bless with your knowledge and wisdom, and bless to achieve success, in life, and also stand for you, and be a blessing for others, Lord let your will come true in her life, we agree with this prayer, Lord please bless Gena_rose, in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
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Dee102

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Gena_rose said:
prayers right now in my process to become a better woman. I have a strong desire to become a successful independent woman. I've had set backs which did not allow me to obtain a proper education throughout the years. just this month I enrolled into a online high schooling which would Allow me to obtain my diploma in 1 1/2 years or less . i'm not use to schooling which is keeping me a bit inconsistent with my work . some day's I wake up embarresed and ashamed of having to start over on everything I should have learned through the years . sometimes I feel so hopeless and stupid , feeling as though all my goals and aspirations will never be obtained . I just want to be Great. i want to make an impact on this world . i thank God for my struggles knowing i'll one day be able to help someone going through the same things i have .this is all so hard wanting to take things into my own hands , trust in the worlds lies of how; i'll never graduate , i'll never amount to anything
or be good enough for certain people is what i struggle with so much. i pray everyday and try and leave everything at God's feet but everything continues to hit me throughout the day of how worthless and stupid I feel. I would love to have support and encouragement from anyone to just help me to continue on . I don't have many people in my life to be here and ask for help , i'm so alone right now a lot of my peers are getting ready to graduate and I feel left behind.
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You are so hard on yourself. Did you have a rough childhood? I am a mother of 2 little girls and if would break my heart to hear them talk like that. My best advice to you is get into your word, the bible helps chase that negative thinking, check out Joyce Meyers battlefield of the mind book and the purpose driven life. You are here for a purpose and you can do all things with Christ who is in you:)
 
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