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WineRose

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In school, I go by a range of different labels. Some call me a recluse, some call me a little hard to get along well with (probably due to my tsundere-like personality) and a few call me morbid (because I am known to make some pretty grim remarks in class...) or even slightly sadistic (I laugh at the most random moments, even if someone is talking about something scary or sad). But most people just call me a savage, and they still do.

For months, people walk up to me and ask "Sonia, do you like rape?", all because I randomly giggled at a sex education video. They still do, sometimes. Frankly, I find this seriously annoying. I can't even have a little giggle in peace...

I still remember one of my most 'savage' moments when it was Biology class. I was doing some work when this boy said my name and was looking at me. That particular boy is known for being very cheeky and a little annoying, at least to me.

However, instead of responding to him (when he does that, it's usually a random, stupid question or, you know, that rape one), I instead slipped on my headphones, ignoring him, and played loud awesome music from my favourite band, X Japan. The boy turned to his friend and said "Shots fired...". His friend then tried calling me, but in response, just to make them go crazy as a way of revenge, I just bumped up the volume on the booming Japanese rock music.

Then all the boys just went "OHHHHH!!!!! SAVAGE!!!!!".

Yeah, idk.
 

JesusLives

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Great thread by the op, it sure would be nice if all threads would be. Every body just speaking their minds in love. Its nice seeing things shared without conflict, being allowed to be themselves. Thread has went way to long for me to read the whole thread, so i don't know if conflict has happened. But every time i've entered it has been a peaceful space. Thanks.
Welcome to Speak Your Mind thread we serve cookies here enjoy... come and speak often and yes this is a safe zone in the BDF and we all try to keep it that way.

 

notmyown

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You don't need to bring your Flak jacket in hero Zero:cool:

You might need an umbrella for that rain tho.

Phil, about your new avatar....

i can't tell if it likes us, or is going to eat us! :eek: ;) :p
 

notmyown

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i wanted to give everyone an update on our brother Frank.

he's been having trouble keeping food down. it was his gallbladder, which can't be removed due to his breathing trouble.

he recently had a bunch of labwork done; haven't heard the results yet. prayers appreciated, i know,
and if you wanted to reach out with a PM or an email, i think he'd like that, too.

happy weekend! :)
 

blue_ladybug

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Well, first of all, it's inappropriate to laugh at rape or a rape video. So I understand why he asked you if you liked rape.. If you want to "giggle in peace" then I suggest you giggle at something that actually IS funny. Otherwise people will continue to call you names. :/ And to ignore someone who is trying to speak to you, and get "a form of revenge", by blasting your music, is rather childish and stupid. I don't know what kind of revenge you thought you were gonna get, but whatever.. Grow up, sweetie. You're 14 years old, you're not a baby in diapers. Start acting more like your age, instead of like a little baby pouting because her sibling took her binky.. lol


In school, I go by a range of different labels. Some call me a recluse, some call me a little hard to get along well with (probably due to my tsundere-like personality) and a few call me morbid (because I am known to make some pretty grim remarks in class...) or even slightly sadistic (I laugh at the most random moments, even if someone is talking about something scary or sad). But most people just call me a savage, and they still do.

For months, people walk up to me and ask "Sonia, do you like rape?", all because I randomly giggled at a sex education video. They still do, sometimes. Frankly, I find this seriously annoying. I can't even have a little giggle in peace...

I still remember one of my most 'savage' moments when it was Biology class. I was doing some work when this boy said my name and was looking at me. That particular boy is known for being very cheeky and a little annoying, at least to me.

However, instead of responding to him (when he does that, it's usually a random, stupid question or, you know, that rape one), I instead slipped on my headphones, ignoring him, and played loud awesome music from my favourite band, X Japan. The boy turned to his friend and said "Shots fired...". His friend then tried calling me, but in response, just to make them go crazy as a way of revenge, I just bumped up the volume on the booming Japanese rock music.

Then all the boys just went "OHHHHH!!!!! SAVAGE!!!!!".

Yeah, idk.
 

blue_ladybug

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Went grocery shopping today. Got some salt and vinegar chicken wings.. Soooooooooooo good.. *drools*

Good morning, peepers.

A Good Morning.jpg
 

Magenta

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i wanted to give everyone an update on our brother Frank.

he's been having trouble keeping food down. it was his gallbladder, which can't be removed due to his breathing trouble.

he recently had a bunch of labwork done; haven't heard the results yet. prayers appreciated, i know,
and if you wanted to reach out with a PM or an email, i think he'd like that, too.

happy weekend! :)
Thank you for the update on Frank :) I have been thinking about him quite a bit recently and miss hearing about how he is doing. Prayers as always to Frank and his family...


 

Dan_473

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PROVERBS 3:18 Wisdom is a tree of life to those who embrace her; happy are those who hold her tightly.
 

EarnestQ

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Well, first of all, it's inappropriate to laugh at rape or a rape video. So I understand why he asked you if you liked rape.. If you want to "giggle in peace" then I suggest you giggle at something that actually IS funny. Otherwise people will continue to call you names. :/ And to ignore someone who is trying to speak to you, and get "a form of revenge", by blasting your music, is rather childish and stupid. I don't know what kind of revenge you thought you were gonna get, but whatever.. Grow up, sweetie. You're 14 years old, you're not a baby in diapers. Start acting more like your age, instead of like a little baby pouting because her sibling took her binky.. lol

I think you could have handled that better, Lady Blue. It is pretty condemning.

Encourage her to do what is right rather than criticizing her for not meeting your expectations of a 14 year old. There may be more going on in her life than you are aware of.

FWIW.
 

p_rehbein

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mmmmmmmmm.............deep fried froggie leggies........mmmmmmmmm
 

WineRose

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Well, first of all, it's inappropriate to laugh at rape or a rape video. So I understand why he asked you if you liked rape.. If you want to "giggle in peace" then I suggest you giggle at something that actually IS funny. Otherwise people will continue to call you names. :/ And to ignore someone who is trying to speak to you, and get "a form of revenge", by blasting your music, is rather childish and stupid. I don't know what kind of revenge you thought you were gonna get, but whatever.. Grow up, sweetie. You're 14 years old, you're not a baby in diapers. Start acting more like your age, instead of like a little baby pouting because her sibling took her binky.. lol
Well, I knew that I would be bashed for this. I SO saw that coming. I'm not even surprised.

This happened almost a year ago, and that was before I was saved for the second time. So yes, I would agree with you that I was a bit of an idiot back then, if that's what you wanted to say. I really was.
 
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Considering the scriptures regularly spoke of God giving people dreams & visions I always wondered why it didn't talk much about nightmares. As well as if Gods people ever questioned him about them.
 

p_rehbein

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A nightmare is a dream, just not a very pleasurable one........and there are dreams described in Scripture that were not very pleasurable as well...........ergo........