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Hello again Family. It's been along time..

I wanted to start off with a Big Thanks for all your future prayers you may have for me.

I need prayer so desperately. Well my husband of 9 years he has cheated and his reasoning being was he is a man. I've forgiven him and tried to move past it, well he continues to be deceitful and lie about money to the point of he purchased 2 cars without my knowledge and was lieing about paying the rent. So it's just been a change of events with him. He wants to be someone he is not he need to be happy with the person GOD made him to be. he chases material items and got a job in a field knows nothing about so he can say he is this person. I've explained that u need to be happy with whom GOD has made u. He says were separated and he can be him. So me and our 2 children 6 and 13 yrs old are moving as soon as we can get deposit money. Im soo desperate for prayers to help my finances so I can relocate. Please pray for my husband he really believes the grass is greener and I can't continue on with this ungodly way that he has forced into our marriage. Please pray for my strength and finances to get my children and I to a more concrete situation. They are aware and understand. I was shocked when my daughter let me know that dad was selfish. Your prayers are soo very very appreciated.

Thanks again.
Love you all
 
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*** Also we have decided to divorce.. well he decided I should say
 
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Praying for you now...stay strong, sister <3
 

azlightsout

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Praying for u --- Praying that the Lord almighty sets your husband straight and on the right PATH ---- I was once in his shoes and i felt like i was invincible - married and all ---- i will say this thou --- the LORD can set him straight - the LORD can shine BRIGHT in his eyes and get him focused on the right track (gods path)..... In jesus name We pray - AMEN
 
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I pray for it.. I know it can be done thru the Almighty GOD. I feel that my husband spirit is in turmoil.. so he needs his space now for i need to protect the children and myself. But a big THANK YOU for sharing such a personal path within your life. Blessings.
 

blue_ladybug

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Your daughter is a smart girl. It shouldn't be a shock to you that he is selfish. It's obvious from your post that he is MORE than selfish. Don't be sad that he's divorcing you, be glad that he's not dragging you and the kids into his selfish, petty world anymore..
 
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That's a good way to put it Lady Blue.. Thank You..Blessings
 
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Ariel82

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Why doesn't he move and you keep the place you are living?
 
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I don't want any affliction of these bad memories too much negativity here and need good vibes and be around family with nothing but positivity and love around me and my children.
 
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iveseenworse

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most people change after those dating days and promises. most humans disappoint, just wait for it...after giving my all to two women , ive decided it's just me and you God. i pray the transition goes well for you.
 
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Thank you soo much for your well wishes.. one thing I do know is that GOD has control and has the answers and all the solutions and I trust in HIM..
 

azlightsout

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Thank you soo much for your well wishes.. one thing I do know is that GOD has control and has the answers and all the solutions and I trust in HIM..
Best advise I can give u is that u need to give him space.focus on yourself and your kids. I dont know the full story but more than likely the Home wrecker that he is chasing has bad karma and its rubbing off on him. Thank god im not interested in that life anymore but I fell for that same thing. The home wrecker doesnt care about cars,jewelry,nice clothes . She wants to destroy your marriage. When I finally woke up and realized what she was after she was already gone in the wind chasing her next victim U can see it. I can see it. God can see it. He cant see it. I pray that god opens his eyes. Good is good .
 

levi85

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Lord we pray for ladymarr, and her husband, please bless them together and let you be glorified. Father God change her husbands attitude towards her husband, let it be honest, truthful, loving and caring. Lord bless ladymarr and husband, and family, let you be glorified, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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Thank you sooo very much azlightsout. Yes I truly understand the homewrecker thing. I truly thank you for your prayers and encouragement.
 
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Hi levi85. I want to start of by wishing u much happiness on your big day to come. Blessing to you and the beautiful bride that GOD has created for you.. and thank you also for your well wishes this isn't he first time you've prayed for me and vice versa.. thanks a million for your kind words n prayers. Bleasings
 

Tinkerbell725

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I feel sad hearing another marriage destroyed. Your husband is blinded by satan disguised as an adulterous woman. There's a chance that he might wake up from this nightmare he is having. Will you go with the divorce that he wants? feel sorry for your husband. If that woman is done with him she will not hesitate to leave him because she is evil. Praying for your family in Jesus name. Amen. God bless.
 

crossnote

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'He is a man'?

Someone needs to tell him real men stay faithful, little boys play around.

Will be praying.
 

HS

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I will pray for your situation my Lady. I pray that God will open your husband's eyes and see you as the beautiful bride that he married. I pray that your heart and your children's hearts will be healed and the marriage fixed as God doesn't like divorce. He fixed my parent's marriage. He can fix yours.