Why we still single?

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LiJo said:
How many is too many....lol
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Good question do you know Hank Hanegraaff ??? i listen to him on 930 am here in Edmonton Alberta the light at 4pm and at 11 pm , Well heis the bible answer man , and he has 12 kids . You imagination have all those kids to feed three times a day wooooow !!!!
 
spiritleadme23 said:
Because guys only see me as a friend and often tell me I'm not attractive enough :(
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Dont listen to them, theyre main objective is not a relationship if theyre that shallow and only care about looks.
Dont let yourself believe that thats the way all males are, I can guarantee you that there are many who dont think that way.

And I think I said before, Im never actually actively looking for a relationship, I generally just go about life with the hope that maybe Ill just find someone one day. I dunno if thats really the best path though : p Kinda feel that by trying Id just end up seeming weird and messing up any chance I may have had, though.

I have a story, though. I know a woman who is just under twice my age that I get along with extremely well, who seems to like me and apparently says very nice things about me to others : p Shes very much the kind of girl Id wanna get with if that ever happens. But, another woman actually decided to try to get us together by sharing the things we say about each other, and encouraging me to talk to her about it. I didnt do that, but brought up that it happened, and she told me she did not ask her to do that, and felt kinda awkward too : p We laughed it off and things are still normal and fine between us : p

I appreciate the thoughts of the girl that did that, but there are limits : p
 
tourist said:
True beauty lies within that transcends to the outside. Perhaps these guys are blinded by the truth.
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Yeraza_Bats said:
Dont listen to them, theyre main objective is not a relationship if theyre that shallow and only care about looks.
Dont let yourself believe that thats the way all males are, I can guarantee you that there are many who dont think that way.
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Thank you for the kind words. I honestly don't know what to think it's happened too many times and even with Christian men. It's just hard when that's all that ever happens to me. I know it's not the worst thing that could happen to a person but it's still hurtful.
 
My reason is am still looking out for that special person who will compliment my effort at doing things right and pleasing The Lord.
 
The real attractiveness is in the heart ,not facial or outside look .Facial look will wound up some day but the heart of gold lives on
 
I'm single because I have not yet grown into the man who is capable of truly loving the wife I deserve, the way she deseves to be loved.
 
I hate the dating game and the drama and deception that is often involved.

Also I date very conservatively, so that probably lowers my odds of meeting the right one. What I have found is that it's beginning to seem absolutely impossible to find a girl with a conservative "relationship" history nowadays, but I'll continue to do my best to live the way God wants us too.
 
Witness45 said:
Cause I'm not suitable to be with anyone...
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WOW, what a self-negative attitude for one so young.

Let me try to encourage you. YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD, and that makes you VERY SPECIAL to one of a like minded faith (be equally yoked), and your age.

I did not find my SOUL-MATE until I was 29, but then we were happily married for 36 years. She passed away last Nov. 2nd. Yes that was devastating, but the Lord is growing me out of the grieving, but I will always miss her. Will I marry again? Probably, but Elizabeth will always remain my one and only soul-mate.
 
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VCO said:
WOW, what a self-negative attitude for one so young.

Let me try to encourage you. YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD, and that makes you VERY SPECIAL to one of a like minded faith (be equally yoked), and your age.

I did not find my SOUL-MATE until I was 29, but then we were happily married for 36 years. She passed away last Nov. 2nd. Yes that was devastating, but the Lord is growing me out of the grieving, but I will always miss her. Will I marry again? Probably, but Elizabeth will always remain my one and only soul-mate.
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I'm truly sorry to hear of your loss VCO. May God comfort you as you grieve, and lead you forward in this life, until you are with your Elizabeth again.
 
Because God is still working on my love story :) Hopefully it will not take 5 years more to finish it. Been praying for it and I believe God is always on time!
 
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