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Because guys only see me as a friend and often tell me I'm not attractive enough 
Dont let yourself believe that thats the way all males are, I can guarantee you that there are many who dont think that way.
And I think I said before, Im never actually actively looking for a relationship, I generally just go about life with the hope that maybe Ill just find someone one day. I dunno if thats really the best path though : p Kinda feel that by trying Id just end up seeming weird and messing up any chance I may have had, though.
I have a story, though. I know a woman who is just under twice my age that I get along with extremely well, who seems to like me and apparently says very nice things about me to others : p Shes very much the kind of girl Id wanna get with if that ever happens. But, another woman actually decided to try to get us together by sharing the things we say about each other, and encouraging me to talk to her about it. I didnt do that, but brought up that it happened, and she told me she did not ask her to do that, and felt kinda awkward too : p We laughed it off and things are still normal and fine between us : p
I appreciate the thoughts of the girl that did that, but there are limits : p
I hate the dating game and the drama and deception that is often involved.
Also I date very conservatively, so that probably lowers my odds of meeting the right one. What I have found is that it's beginning to seem absolutely impossible to find a girl with a conservative "relationship" history nowadays, but I'll continue to do my best to live the way God wants us too.
Also I date very conservatively, so that probably lowers my odds of meeting the right one. What I have found is that it's beginning to seem absolutely impossible to find a girl with a conservative "relationship" history nowadays, but I'll continue to do my best to live the way God wants us too.
WOW, what a self-negative attitude for one so young.
Let me try to encourage you. YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD, and that makes you VERY SPECIAL to one of a like minded faith (be equally yoked), and your age.
I did not find my SOUL-MATE until I was 29, but then we were happily married for 36 years. She passed away last Nov. 2nd. Yes that was devastating, but the Lord is growing me out of the grieving, but I will always miss her. Will I marry again? Probably, but Elizabeth will always remain my one and only soul-mate.
