Is Physical Attraction Important ?
- Thread starter christianguitarist
- Start date
-
Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.
If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!
To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
9th grade, i met a guy in one of my classes. i didn't really talk to him.
11th grade - he and i became good friends. super smart and super funny. all of a sudden, i started liking him. it wasn't until then i found him attractive. before, he was just a guy in class. i didn't find him unattractive, but i wasn't attracted to him until junior year of high school. (he only saw me as a friend though lol)
idk if this happens more with girls than guys, but sometimes (initially) there isn't a physical attraction until one gets to know the other.
11th grade - he and i became good friends. super smart and super funny. all of a sudden, i started liking him. it wasn't until then i found him attractive. before, he was just a guy in class. i didn't find him unattractive, but i wasn't attracted to him until junior year of high school. (he only saw me as a friend though lol)
idk if this happens more with girls than guys, but sometimes (initially) there isn't a physical attraction until one gets to know the other.
J
So I am attracted to the sense of humor and personality before the physical attributes. Now if they have the physical attributes its a bonus to me. In fact my friends will tell you I am always dating men who they say are beneath me in the physical attraction scale. Which I don't see...but AGAIN that is far from what I look at. Most of the men who are high on the physical attribute scale are dumber than a box of matches and therefore cannot ignite anything in me.
first day of school, i saw my classmate and thought to myself, "oh he's really cute!"
a couple of days later, i heard him cuss. i thought to myself, "oh nevermind. he's not a christian"
i was 6 yrs old. 6!!!! bahahaha.
at that age, i believed cussing was a big no-no, and obviously, in hearing him cuss meant i shouldn't be interested. i no longer found him cute. hahahahaha.
a couple of days later, i heard him cuss. i thought to myself, "oh nevermind. he's not a christian"
i was 6 yrs old. 6!!!! bahahaha.
at that age, i believed cussing was a big no-no, and obviously, in hearing him cuss meant i shouldn't be interested. i no longer found him cute. hahahahaha.