Ladies...here it is! What men want.
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• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
Hopefully yo will have learned something
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
Hopefully yo will have learned something
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My friends, don't let a silly "how-to" from the archives of the world cast any gloom over the true liberty and joy that is ours in Jesus Christ. God Himself loves us just as we are. If someone doesn’t love you just like you are, it’s not love.
My husband wore numerous earrings, black eye makeup & nail polish, tattoos and black leather. He was a rock musician, entertainer, biker and a mountain of a man. Not many men would have had the guts to tell him to his face he wasn’t manly enough. He looked like someone you don’t mess with.
And I fell in love with him. ♥As for cooking, my husband was a better cook than I. In fact, both my sons are excellent cooks and can whip up some serious gourmet meals. (So Melita, you two won’t ever starve. Haha!!)
And clutter? My husband and my sons thrive in clutter. It amazes me how they know where things are in a messy heap. So I kept my space clutter-free while my husband's stuff remained in chaos, just the way he liked it.
And about keeping a quiet house... My husband & I both had jobs but when we were at home, the place was like a concert hall most of the time. My husband was a guitarist, my kids are musical & I sang my head off… so loud rock music blared throughout our house usually from sunrise to whenever. And of course, my husband encouraged the kids to start a garage band so we had teenagers happily parading through our home regularly. I don’t remember a time when our house was totally silent. Ever.
Not only did my eccentric, animated behavior fascinate my husband, but it prompted him to let loose with his own brand of comedic antics that kept me in stiches. I ROFL when I think of the hilarious responses he'd have for this thread. And I'm sure some of his quotes wouldn't be permitted to post here, but they'd sure be hilarious!
What a fun-loving guy he was. You don't meet free-spirited men like him every day. *sigh*Anyhow, good folks, we all know in our hearts that a godly man will step up his own game and in the epic words of Hugh Latimer, "play the man." He doesn't require a lady to compensate for any lack of skillz. Because every man is complete just as he is, and has his own unique skillz in Christ. And God can provide a complete woman with her unique skillz and she'll be an awesome match for him, just as she is.
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