Ladies...here it is! What men want.
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all i know is this - my boyfriend and i were talking about the future.
me: my only concern is i don't know how to cook.
him: aw it's ok. i can teach you.
me: i'm gonna learn though. i promise.
him: don't learn for me. learn because you want to do it for yourself.
me: my only concern is i don't know how to cook.
him: aw it's ok. i can teach you.
me: i'm gonna learn though. i promise.
him: don't learn for me. learn because you want to do it for yourself.
You can do anything you put your mind to! I've mentioned before that I traveled in ministry for twenty years. When my husband asked me to marry him I hardly knew a teapot from a cook pot. lol lol Not that bad. My husband joked that there is a country song about the husband eating burned dinners for the first year of marriage. But I was determined to learn. I found it was something I was really good at. Before long I was baking so many desserts my husband told me I had to stop because he was putting on too much weight.lol Now I only bake on special occasions. But when Christmas comes he gives me the go ahead and says he'll lose the weight in the new year.
You're a smart woman,you'll do fine.
You can do anything you put your mind to! I've mentioned before that I traveled in ministry for twenty years. When my husband asked me to marry him I hardly knew a teapot from a cook pot. lol lol Not that bad. My husband joked that there is a country song about the husband eating burned dinners for the first year of marriage. But I was determined to learn. I found it was something I was really good at. Before long I was baking so many desserts my husband told me I had to stop because he was putting on too much weight.lol Now I only bake on special occasions. But when Christmas comes he gives me the go ahead and says he'll lose the weight in the new year. You're a smart woman,you'll do fine.
You're a smart woman,you'll do fine.
You want your husband kissing your feet? Is he a dog? Gosh I feel sorry for him. Shawn, MY HUSBAND is a smart man and has only here said what so many men are afraid of saying because women just give men who speak up for themselves crap.... I encourage men to speak up like this more because like Ive said before, respect goes both ways and sadly women think they own the world now a days ...
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Quote "I'm talking about sites where men ask women for advice for making their significant other happy."
What are you reading man? Cosmo?! Are these Christian women? Link us to all these sites as proof of what you are saying why don't you? Since there are so many.
Quote " will expect of you to be a old fashion godly women"
Which is what? Barefoot and pregnant? Ever read Proverbs 31? If you wife is able to stay at home blessings on her but not everyone is able to do that.
Quote " You cannot be a high-powered career woman and be a stay at home house mom who tends to the children."
Many women don't have a choice. My grandmother had six boys and raised them all on her own. A friend of my sisters just lost her husband to cancer,he was 30. She has two girls and a baby on the way. She has no support,she is going to have to take care of everything alone. You don't know what people are going through.
Quote "someone is going to get neglected more than the other."
Plenty of stay at home mothers have neglected children. There are good and bad mothers that work or stay at home. Neither circumstance makes a good of bad mother. Anything else is merely your opinion.
Quote "You don't need him for anything so why should he be around?"
Because being a spouse isn't a job,not for most of us. As I said my husband told me,he didn't need a housewife,he could care for the house without me. He said he was marrying me because HE LOVED ME. Imagine that!! He appreciates that I take care of everything,but he didn't marry me for that reason.
Quote "So what if he plays video games? Are you suddenly going to nag him when he does what he wants in his own free time? "
Did she not say she was working and he was laying around doing nothing and taking advantage? Are you sure your 30? You talk like your not yet out of your teens. My husband plays video games AFTER work,AFTER bills are paid,AFTER responsibilities are taken care of.Thats what she meant. Actually I play videos with him,Im one bad zombie killer.
Quote "When I lived alone, I had to only clean my house once every 2 weeks to keep things organized and I could get it done within 1-2 hours. I don't think your fooling men into believing that house-work is hard. Its not. Its easy, its fast, its efficient. "
Im totally raising the bull crap flag on you. First,you were alone so big man, you threw your taco bell bag in the garbage. You cleaned your toilet every two weeks? Im glad I wasn't a guest at your house,men aren't known for their "aim". And sheets? Sticky floors? Wow!! Man you were a horrible house keeper!! I think you must be like the Febreeze commercial "nose blind" No wonder it took no time. House work is work if you do it right. Once every two weeks. Why, if you were my wife I'd fire you.
Quote "Really? Every woman? Even those women that throw their babies in microwave ovens and watch them fry to death? Even the women who throw them in garbage bags and leaves them to die? How sweet. Lets get them some flowers and hold the door open for the dears."
Wow, you have a high opinion of women. My husband is southern and opens doors for every women. He doesn't stop to ask if they deserve it or if they cooked their kid in the microwave. But hey,thats what a real man does.
Quote "If a guy asks the same thing, the same women will crucify him."
So you intimately know what every woman thinks and wants to you? Respect goes both ways in my marriage. we put each other first,always. Not because we force each other,or demand but because we love each other enough to do so.
Quote "And that right there is why many women on here are single and without mates"
You don't know any of the women on here. You're just being a judgmental jassastor.
If you don't know how to communicate learn it or stay single. No relationship works without communication. Women and men are different and if you love each other you'll learn to meet each others needs.
You can do anything you put your mind to! I've mentioned before that I traveled in ministry for twenty years. When my husband asked me to marry him I hardly knew a teapot from a cook pot. lol lol Not that bad. My husband joked that there is a country song about the husband eating burned dinners for the first year of marriage. But I was determined to learn. I found it was something I was really good at. Before long I was baking so many desserts my husband told me I had to stop because he was putting on too much weight.lol Now I only bake on special occasions. But when Christmas comes he gives me the go ahead and says he'll lose the weight in the new year. You're a smart woman,you'll do fine.
You're a smart woman,you'll do fine.
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