Ladies...here it is! What men want.

[phil36]

• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
• Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
• During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
• Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
• Be happy to see him.
• Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
• Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
• Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
• Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner . Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
• Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
• Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.


Hopefully yo will have learned something .

 

[tourist]

I am surmising that a guy wrote the Good Wife's Guide.

 

[coby]

Oooh now I get it.
I thought they liked to be growled at and liked to hear my complaints of the day in a barking voice, letting him wait an hour because I was too lazy to order the pizza guy in time.
I've done it all wrong.

 

[crosstweed]

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• Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness.

I've only been around for 21 years, but I've never met this guy... Unless you mean Jesus... You do mean Jesus, don't you?

 

[jennymae]

Oh wow, is it that nice being a man?

 

[melita916]

i guess i better start learning how to cook.

bahahahahahaha

 

[Devoted2JC]

I like this thread .... it has me lol

 

[AuntieAnt]

Very funny, Phil!! I honestly laughed till I cried.

 

[Stephen63]

I don't know about the part of "being a little more gay" making things 'more interesting' for him..... jus' sayin'.

 

[jennymae]

I don't know about the part of "being a little more gay" making things 'more interesting' for him..... jus' sayin'.

Willum was a gay deceiver...lol

 

[PoetMary]

And from snopes.com


Origins: It has become fashionable to portray outdated societal behaviors and attitudes — ones we now consider desperately wrongheaded — to be worse than they really were as a way of making a point about how much we've improved. When we despair over the human condition and feel the need for a little pat on the back, a few startling comparisons between us modern enlightened folks and those terrible neanderthals of yesteryear give us that. We go away from such readings a bit proud of how we've pulled ourselves up by our bootstraps and with our halos a bit more brightly burnished.

The juxtaposition of wonderful modernity with a tawdry past also serves to reinforce the 'rightness' of current societal stances by making any other positions appear ludicrous. It reminds folks of the importance of holding on to these newer ways of thinking and to caution them against falling back into older patterns which may be more comfortable but less socially desirable. Such reinforcement works on the principle that if you won't do a good thing just for its own sake, you'll surely do it to avoid being laughed at and looked down upon by your peers.

A typical vessel for this sort of comparison is the fabricated or misrepresented bit of text from the "olden days," some document that purportedly demonstrates how our ancestors endured difficult lives amidst people who once held truly despicable beliefs. Want to prove that American slaveholders were even more vile than we could possibly imagine? Just point people to the apocryphal Slave Consultant's Narrative. Remind someone what easy lives we lead these days by showing him an alleged list of rules for teachers from 1872. Or poke fun at Victorian sexual attitudes (or modern day feminism) by trotting out a piece of Advice to Young Brides.

The question here is whether the piece quoted above really came from a home economics textbook. Is it real, or is it yet another of those "look how far we've come" fabrications? We know the graphic reproduced above (supposedly from the 13 May 1955 edition of a magazine calledHousekeeping Monthly) is a fabrication: It didn't first appear until well after the "How to Be a Good Wife" list had begun circulating via e-mail, and it's clearly a mock-up produced by adding the text of the e-mail around an image taken from a 1957 cover of John Bull magazine. (The image itself even bears an "Advertising Archives" legend along its side, indicating its source.) As for the text itself, nobody has turned up the infamous textbook that supposedly included these ten steps. The list is often attributed to Helen B. Andelin's book Fascinating Womanhood, first published in 1963 to provide instruction in "The Art of Winning a Man's Complete Love," but no such list appears in that work.

However, before we head off to go dancing in the streets over this, safe and secure in our knowledge that this list of housewifely tips was just a bit of cooked-up nonsense, we'd better take another look at the wife's role in the 1950s. And before we entirely write off Fascinating Womanhood as the source of the piece now in circulation, let's take a peek between its covers, because it certainly contains plenty to make everyone from the diehard feminist to the "start the revolution without me" matron shudder, including these entries from a list of "DO's and DON'TS":

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[TD="width: 50%"]Do's[/TD]
[TD="width: 50%"]Dont's[/TD]
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[TD]Accept him at face value.[/TD]
[TD]Don't try to change him.[/TD]
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[TR]
[TD]Admire the manly things about him.[/TD]
[TD]Don't show indifference, contempt, or ridicule towards his masculine abilities, achievements or ideas.[/TD]
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[TD]Recognize his superior strength and ability.[/TD]
[TD]Don't try to excel him in anything which requires masculine ability.[/TD]
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[TR]
[TD]Be a Domestic Goddess.[/TD]
[TD]Don't let the outside world crowd you for time to do your homemaking tasks well.[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Work for inner happiness and seek to understand its rules.[/TD]
[TD]Don't have a lot of preconceived ideas of what you want out of life.[/TD]
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[TR]
[TD]Revere your husband and honor his right to rule you and your children.[/TD]
[TD]Don't stand in the way of his decisions, or his law.[/TD]
[/TR]
[/TABLE]

We don't want to believe any woman, even half a century ago, was willing to submit herself to a life of servitude in order to be considered successful at her "most important role in life," that of the wife. And we certainly don't want to believe our schools were used to inculcate young women with these skewed notions of the proper role for women. Yet we'd be wrong on both counts: Women did, and young gals were.

Whether the piece at hand is a genuine excerpt from a yet-undiscovered home economics textbook, it is nonetheless a relatively accurate reflection of the mainstream vision of a woman's appointed role in post-war America, as evinced by such educational training films as "The Home Economics Story" (made familiar to a whole new generation of youngsters through its spoofing on the popular Mystery Science Theater 3000 program).

We needn't paint a mental picture of those times as being one of master and slave, "his every whim a command, his every utterance golden," because they weren't. But it is [TABLE]
[TR]
[TD]
[/TD]
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[/TABLE]
true in those days a woman's province was understood to be the home. To her fell the housework and the childrearing, tasks considered her indisputable purpose in life, her highest calling; not something voluntarily undertaken.

It was seen as only right and proper that the wife should keep the home running smoothly, making it a quiet haven of peace and joy for her husband, the breadwinner. Her role in the marriage, though still important, was simply not considered to be on the same level as his. Certainly, the tribulations of running a home were never to be openly compared with a man's daily travails. He earned money, she didn't; thus his work was important.

So, given all that, how to view this ten-point list which supposedly came from a 1950s home economics textbook? After having leafed through Fascinating Womanhood, I want to see it as a condensation of the worst of this particular "joy through subservience" era, a precipitate that showcased only the most servile aspects of what women were led to believe was their right and proper function (all the parts that didn't portray them as handmaidens to the lord and master having been discarded to make the story better). Call it an exaggeration with a point, if you will.

Sightings: The 2000 Larry Elder book, 10 Things You Can't Say in America, reproduces the text of the example, with "How to be a good wife, a home economics high school textbook, 1954" offered as its source.

Last updated: 12 March 2015

 

[JennaLeanne]

Thankyou Lord that I don't have a husband !!!! x

 

[spunkycat08]

And what about the married couples in which the wife and the husband have to work full-time in order to make ends meet?

What if the wife works different hours than the husband?

Life is different now compared to back then.

 

[Utah]

Check out that seven worded phrase right above her head. Snicker, snicker.

 

[phil36]

Check out that seven worded phrase right above her head. Snicker, snicker.

I never noticed that lol.

 

[zeroturbulence]

Based on all these replies, i might have to actually read the OP. I almost never do that!

 

[Roh_Chris]

Hahaha.. your sense of humour is good!

 

[Shawn2516]

Tell me again which guy wouldn't want a wife like that with those qualities? They don't make them like they use to anymore. Now every man has to hear how he's a potential rapist.

 

[Xeano321]

I want to greeted with complaints. That opens a door for ME to complain... I can see it now:

"Honey! You're back. Today was horrible. That dumb kid next door caught the house on fire and ruined my lunch." Me:"You think you had a hard day? I didn't get MY normal parking spot..." JK of course.

 

[venti2015]

bahahahahahah.... somebody wants a programmed robot like this to accept the dont's ( @ And from snopes.com's DONT's)