Some people arent into flirting. Lucky for me my husband understood that and loved me anyway.lol My younger sister was great at it. I never learned. Guys usually feared me,I was quick and sarcastic. My husband is so calm and even tempered he was nonplussed by me. He compares us to the sitcom "King of Queens" that was popular in the 90s. He's Doug,Im Carrie.lol