First day of School

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(Bit of a rant, sorry) Back to school today and I feel that this year is gonna be worse then any of the years before. First lesson I couldn't focus at all. Like I have trouble paying attention in general but in this class there's a lot of people who don't like me and the teacher decided to sit me near them so they were saying crap to me and then the teacher had a go at me for not listening so I asked if I could move seats cos I couldn't concentrate where I was and she straight up went no. These guys were like swearing at me and calling me names and throwing stuff at me so I told them to F off and then I'm being sent out for it. I was pretty mad so I just sort of walked out of school for a bit to have a cig which they didn't really mind about last year. When I went back I went to the teacher to try and explain to her what had happened but she just took me to the head teachers office and apparantly their trying a new system where u get 3 chances and then u get expelled. And I've just lost my first chance. Seriously? They might as well kick me out already. I'd probably be doing better if I stopped school and got a job and started living my own life. Once ur labelled as a good or a bad kid that's it. Your teachers have set the expectations for u and if ur bad they only c the bad that u do and if ur good they don't c the bad that u do. So much goes on in classrooms that teachers have no idea about and if u talk to them about it they won't listen and it doesn't really matter because at the end of the day what they thinks happened matters more.
 
Lil Bro - no matter what problems you have, no matter what you think of your home, and no matter what you think of school and the kids there, getting out of school and into a career is your ticket out of all the crap you talk about. If you do well EVERYTHING you currently hate around you disappears as you move on. Mess up your school and you sit in the middle of it and maybe it gets even worse.

With all my stuff that I have, the cutting etc etc, This is one thing I know I gotta do - I dont mess up school and lil bro your smart so you dont need to mess it up.

Hey are you using a journal - did you go back to your counsellor? Are you hooked into youth mental health? Coz like any one of those is gonna help.... just saying
 
School used to be bad for me... You just gotta learn to tune them out and love yourself... I know its hard to do, but you have to try... Trust God above all else... Have faith that he will guide you through each day. He has a plan for you, and even though you may not see the good in any situation, HE has a plan and HE has a reason for placing you there.
 
It feels hard not to have any friends or someone who will support you indeed, but those people will only make you stronger and tougher. Maybe you'll "thank" them someday. I mean like, because of them you know the feeling of facing so many problems so that when someday you face a bigger problem you wont be panicked. Someone with success is not someone who doesnt have any problems, but someone who can go through all the obstacles of life. Stay strong, dont give up and prove them that they are wrong and that no matter how they treat you, they cant stop you from being success.

Feel free to PM me anytime you want to :)
 
Listen to me carefully,


I've got bullied
all of my high school
I've been bullied!
Not a joke! I've been bullied
because I'm small, I'm Chinese,
I've a eye bigger than the other one,
for many reasons OK!

Yep, people threw things upon my back
and my head and called me the little dwarf,
they insulted me a lot, I was alone during the Lunch time,
to break time between class to class.

When I asked teachers to do something,
they said to me:
You must to prove that's true!
Each time teachers look to them,
they smiled at the teachers by saying
they're doing nothing at all!

I talked about it to my parents,
my father didn't believe me at all
and my mother called the administrator
but anyway in French it would be easier for me
to explain! I was so tired and p** o**
that I did something really bad!
I cannot tell what I did but after that
no one dared to bully me, and after my speech
in front of my class of 30 people, no one bullied me anymore!
 
@ Practice-english - wow thats so awful you were bullied like that but also so awesome how you got through it. I cant understand why people are so mean like that. I think the advice you and sistersbyheart and Elisabet was good. I'm glad you shared this :)
 
Actually Practice -English - how did you go about stopping your bullying and how long did you have to put up with it?
 
zoii said:
Actually Practice -English - how did you go about stopping your bullying and how long did you have to put up with it?
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What?
I don't understand exactly the question.
 
zoii said:
@ Practice-english - wow thats so awful you were bullied like that but also so awesome how you got through it. I cant understand why people are so mean like that. I think the advice you and sistersbyheart and Elisabet was good. I'm glad you shared this :)
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Thanks !
Yes people can be inspired by the Devil's soul!
 
Levichevett said:
(Bit of a rant, sorry) Back to school today and I feel that this year is gonna be worse then any of the years before. First lesson I couldn't focus at all. Like I have trouble paying attention in general but in this class there's a lot of people who don't like me and the teacher decided to sit me near them so they were saying crap to me and then the teacher had a go at me for not listening so I asked if I could move seats cos I couldn't concentrate where I was and she straight up went no. These guys were like swearing at me and calling me names and throwing stuff at me so I told them to F off and then I'm being sent out for it. I was pretty mad so I just sort of walked out of school for a bit to have a cig which they didn't really mind about last year. When I went back I went to the teacher to try and explain to her what had happened but she just took me to the head teachers office and apparantly their trying a new system where u get 3 chances and then u get expelled. And I've just lost my first chance. Seriously? They might as well kick me out already. I'd probably be doing better if I stopped school and got a job and started living my own life. Once ur labelled as a good or a bad kid that's it. Your teachers have set the expectations for u and if ur bad they only c the bad that u do and if ur good they don't c the bad that u do. So much goes on in classrooms that teachers have no idea about and if u talk to them about it they won't listen and it doesn't really matter because at the end of the day what they thinks happened matters more.
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What were you doing when you weren't listening?
You told the guys to F off?
You went out and had a cig?

You don't want to be bullied!

Okay. So focus on how you can learn to pay attention in class. That will help with several things. You won't be preoccupied with remarks from those who don't like you. Instead, your attention will be on learning.

Cut out the vulgarity. And don't talk back to the bullies. It will only empower them.

Smoking at 14!

Quit. Whether you are bullied or not. Just quit.

If you don't pay attention in class and continue to swear and continue to smoke-your peers will smell it on you-you will probably continued to be bullied.

Talk with the teacher in private after class. Ask her to help you with concentration. With the bullying. Meet with the school principal or head teacher office official. Talk to your parents.

If you can't, I mean CAN'T pay attention, you may have a problem with ADD. Hope not.

Go to school with a mind to learn. Dress neat. Clean. Comb hair. Be presentable.
Not saying you are sloppy. Just be sure you are clean and wearing clean clothes. No cig aroma on your clothes, no messy hair, no sluggish walk.

Pray for help. For patience.

There's no excuse for others to be bullying you. None. But bullies do go after students who they see as having weakness or low self esteem.

I hope you ask and press your teacher and parents to help you.

Blessings!
 
Elisabet said:
She asked how to stop the bullying that happened to you and how long does it take for you to stop the bullying

Am i interpreting correctly, zoii? :p
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It's a misunderstanding!
I didn't bullied anyone!!!
I still have difficulties to
write in another language!
I affirmed to everyone that's
it's enough and they stopped to bully!
 
Seriously just try and stick to it! I hated school and I am so glad to have finished. I hope you do well and I pray that God helps you!
 
I don't want to go to school anymore. I'm skipping next week. I'll tell them I'm ill. I'll be fine. I won't have to deal with them anymore. It'll be great. I don't need any of them. I'll feel better.
 
Levichevett said:
I don't want to go to school anymore. I'm skipping next week. I'll tell them I'm ill. I'll be fine. I won't have to deal with them anymore. It'll be great. I don't need any of them. I'll feel better.
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I don't think so because you leak your problems
by give it in or give it up.
I changed school more than twice because
I thought that it was the solution to change
environment but I leaked my problems.
 
I went in and did first lesson but now I'm on the bus going home and I'm so happy ^_^ my brother gonna be well mad at me when he finds out but I'll deal with that later :3 you can't even begin to understand how good it feels to be choosing to walk away from all the stress and negativity to just be myself. I should feel like this way more
 
Levichevett said:
I went in and did first lesson but now I'm on the bus going home and I'm so happy ^_^ my brother gonna be well mad at me when he finds out but I'll deal with that later :3 you can't even begin to understand how good it feels to be choosing to walk away from all the stress and negativity to just be myself. I should feel like this way more
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Pls correct me if i am wrong. I just wanna hug you right now, bro.
Maybe you should just move to another school if the bullying keepa getting over you. If you cant overcome it, then you should find another solution. I guess school is important for all of us. I want to stop my school as well, but just realize that we need high education for our future. I am not judging or stuffs but yeahh.. we dont know what we will be in the future, so why not prepare for the worst? There are far better ways to deal with bullying.

If you keep "solving" things in your way, in what you think is the nicest according to you, why should you post it here? You posted it because you want helps and advices, and we are always here to help you.

Stay strong and believe things will get better! :)

Lisa
 
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