College God Lust Distraction

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I'm starting University and it's really overwhelming. I know I have to stick close to God, because that's the only way I'll make it through. Are there anyone here who has or is also going to university and have faced these challenges? If so can you add or share any advice on staying in the faith? Especially with all the distraction (girls).
 
Interesting...

What can I say?
Close your eyes when you see
a beautiful & pretty women!
 
Be the nicest guy you possibly can. Turns girls off like a light switch.
 
Sports. Sports. Sports.
Study. Study. Study.
Shower. Shower. Shower. Cold.

Not necessarily in that order.

You're going to have to get your mind absorbed into other things.

If you're not in sports, then exercise. Exercise. Exercise.
 
Galahad said:
Sports. Sports. Sports.
Study. Study. Study.
Shower. Shower. Shower. Cold.

Not necessarily in that order.

You're going to have to get your mind absorbed into other things.

If you're not in sports, then exercise. Exercise. Exercise.
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This sounds pretty legit......yeah I'm planning on playing sports.
 
Even though I went to a Christian college, the school was literally right across from the beach... and the girl to guy ratio was 4:1... And the girls (yes, Christian girls) would constantly wear short shorts because of being right by the water (not all of course). And with it being a 4:1 girl to guy ratio, the girls (not all) would try getting boyfriends because there were so few us on campus compared to them (our school only consisted of 2500 students). Having said all that... I spent the entire three years at university focusing on my school work, focusing on being an editor for our student paper, and getting right with myself, because I had a relationship with a girl there that turned sour, and it really messed me up to the point where I was forced to go to counseling by my Resident Director (person in charge of the dorms you live in) because I had such issues. So between all of those, I'm thankful I didnt struggle that much in that aspect. But basically, my point in all of this.. Keep yourself busy. Join a club. Play intramurals. Get a work study job. Focus on your classes mostly. College isn't about the opposite sex. It's about preparing yourself for the future. Put your trust in Christ, and focus on why you're actually there. For classes. I'm praying for you, brother.
 
I would recommend focusing on your studies and set your sights upon Jesus and he will always come through for you. Remember don't follow the crowd and it's okay to turn down invites to parties and what not, in fact it shows real maturity on your part to say no. Good luck on your studies and continue to heighten your education as it will be beneficial to you.
 
Here's my advice:

1. Treat college like a consumer product. You wouldn't spend $100k on a house only to trash it. Yet many young people spend thousands of dollars to attend a college only to throw away their educational opportunities for the short-term rewards of socializing.

2. Find a Christian group on campus to join. Most colleges have IVCF, FCA, Campus Crusade for Christ, Baptist Student Union, Catholic Student Union, etc. Hanging with fellow believers will help you stay on track.

3. Don't fall into the "hook up" culture of college. It's a waste of precious time in your early 20s when you're meant to be learning how to build significant relationships (friendships and romantic) with the opposite sex. Too many young people get caught up in chasing physical pleasure instead of really doing the work of relationship building.

4. Find a local church. Attending a local church made up of members of all ages can keep you grounded in the "real world." It's too easy for college students to sometimes get caught up in their own bubble. Plus, you'll need the support of older and wiser Christians.
 
Pay attention to your priorities.

Study, and shew yourself a workman approved by God.

So, study. Make sure that you don't neglect your academic requirements.

And then, while you're at it, use those study skills and read your bible too. It will keep you focused.

I'd also recommend you make sure you have an exercise routine. Tire yourself out and then take a nice cold shower.


Lastly, as far as the girls are concerned, make a concerted effort to keep things at eye level. No matter how tempted you might be to do otherwise, only look at a woman's eyes. It will make all the difference in the world. And then if you date one, be sure that you don't let her distract you from your schooling or from God. The easiest way to do this is to only date a woman who is a Christian.


Just take things one step at a time and always keep a prayerful mind and read some scripture. Even in small doses, it will help you stay focused.
 
thefall said:
Lol I'll try.......
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I'm serious when I told you that,
I'll admit that I can do the same thing
as you when I see a ''pretty man''
but I remind myself that it's just a man.
If you wanna come near God,
you must read the Bible to know about
the Ten Commandments, etc.
 
Practice-English said:
I'm serious when I told you that,
I'll admit that I can do the same thing
as you when I see a ''pretty man''
but I remind myself that it's just a man.
If you wanna come near God,
you must read the Bible to know about
the Ten Commandments, etc.
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Thank you.
Amd yes I see your point.
 
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