Flat on your face??? ......... In a puddle of drool???!!! ......... It just keeps getting better!!! ................... I think I may be falling in l...........ust?
Syd,
With all due respect, this is taking things a bit too far.
And could very much make a lady feel a bit uneasy (most especially on a Christian site.)
I know I would feel extremely awkward if someone publicly typed this about me.
I don't mean to speak for Shine at all--I'm only speaking for myself, but also as someone observing from the outside.
Sorry, seoul it's all in reference to some earlier posts that EVERYbody was cracking up about. Did not mean to offend. Shiney knows it's been all in good fun. Pls know I mean no harm. I wouldn't hurt a fly. Bzzzzz-SLAP! (That was a skeeter
) Really. Shiney's my friend, right shiney? ...........shiney? .............Hello?............. GREAT! Abandoned again!
Well, as it can be seen on the forum, I think I can joke with the best of them, but I just have to say that I personally wouldn't "joke" about "falling into lust" with someone on a public forum, and certainly not with someone less than half my age.
I'm just saying, one must think about the other person's perspective as well. I joke and banter with plenty of people here.
But if I were to "joke" here about "falling into lust" with, let's say, a 21-year-old man here (or ANYONE, for that matter, but the age difference really puts it into perspective), I would expect such a comment to be reported to the mods.
I'm not meaning to be a buzzkill, and again, I can only speak for myself. I've read a lot of your posts. I'm sorry for your loneliness, and know that you are very eager to find a woman here.
But I'm just saying... As a woman... that some of your comments... if they were directed at me... Would make me feel quite uncomfortable. And maybe you'll say, "Well, don't worry, they're not for you, Seoul... They're for... (some of the many other young ladies I'm attracted to here) who CAN take a joke."
I'm not saying it's wrong to be attracted to someone. I'm just saying... Please consider her feelings.
And respect her dignity, whether joking or not.