When someone asks, what are you doing tonight/this weekend/whenever when their actual intent is to ask would you like to do xyz tonight/this weekend/whenever. Stop tiptoeing
ROFL
I used to be like that... a lot!!!
Nowdays, whenever I'm free, I just ask a group of friends "what are we doing tonight? Plans?", if they can't make up their minds or don't seem interested in going out, I just say "If nobody wants to do anything I am going to offer myself up to another group..." and then I go to another group of friends and repeat!!! hehehehehe
I always tell my friends that I'm easy, that I say yes to whatever they wanna do, HOWEVER I say yes to the first group of friends who makes plans with me"... after that, I'm taken...