So Shes Pregnant...?

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uhggg there is not off the hook when you mess up like this this is something he will have to live with for the rest of his life ):
 
TheBlackDove said:
uhggg there is not off the hook when you mess up like this this is something he will have to live with for the rest of his life ):
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True.. and at 14, immature children should not be having sex. They shouldn't even know what sex is OR how to do it.. People don't realize the ginormous responsibility that comes with sex, especially if they are careless.

Levi, you've already been told that you did with her is a sin. You know that. Instead of worrying about this ordeal I suggest you get right with God on this. Only he can stop you from repeating this careless and stupid act.. I hope this situation makes you want to give up having sex at all.
 
Levichevett said:
she stayed at my house last night cos her parents were fighting and now i realize how hard it really is to learn from all this. i dont even know if i love her or if i want to have this baby u know i just want things to go back to be simplier. I do a lot of bad things that i shouldnt be and then they lead to even bigger things and i dont know how to stop them. i get that i need to pray and ask for help and forgiveness and i keep telling myself ill stop but then when theres temptation its like Hes no there anymore and i just do stuff. the only good thing that happened last night is that when we talked she said that maybe abortion isnt the right thing or maybe it is and she asked me to forgive her for it. idk but maybe theres still hope.
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do you know what the word Christian means? it means like Christ let me ask you something after you sined and you asked God to fogive you when she came back and you started having sex with her was that Christ like??


we all would have hoped you would have learned from this I speak for all of us here we are very sad and disappointed in you.
 
TheBlackDove said:
do you know what the word Christian means? it means like Christ let me ask you something after you sined and you asked God to fogive you when she came back and you started having sex with her was that Christ like??


we all would have hoped you would have learned from this I speak for all of us here we are very sad and disappointed in you.
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no it wasn't. But it's not like u could honestly expect me to just turn it of u no I just screw things up that's what I do at least u know that's what I'm good at
 
Levichevett said:
no it wasn't. But it's not like u could honestly expect me to just turn it of u no I just screw things up that's what I do at least u know that's what I'm good at
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Jesus can set you free did you know that joseph was tempted to have sex with pharose wife but he what? (Ran ) he ran from the sexual sin so he would not be a partaker in it and that is what you should do, we all do things not like Christ but we are getting better and learning how to be more like him I really hope you will take my advise this time
 
TheBlackDove said:
Jesus can set you free did you know that joseph was tempted to have sex with pharose wife but he what? (Ran ) he ran from the sexual sin so he would not be a partaker in it and that is what you should do, we all do things not like Christ but we are getting better and learning how to be more like him I really hope you will take my advise this time
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And what if I'm not good enough
 
you see your not no one is but God is so we rely on his ability and look at it like this have sex before marriage you are sinning and sin leads to (HELL) so unless you want to go to hell wich I know you don't I would very much stop having sex. and work on dealing with any other sins in your live.
 
TheBlackDove said:
you see your not no one is but God is so we rely on his ability and look at it like this have sex before marriage you are sinning and sin leads to (HELL) so unless you want to go to hell wich I know you don't I would very much stop having sex. and work on dealing with any other sins in your live.
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But it's not that simple. Walking away is like choosing to hold ur breath for eternity and feel so dead inside when u could just so easily give in and breathe and feel more alive. That's what it felt like.
 
Levichevett said:
But it's not that simple. Walking away is like choosing to hold ur breath for eternity and feel so dead inside when u could just so easily give in and breathe and feel more alive. That's what it felt like.
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Resisting sin, any sin, is gonna be a fight. Put up a fight. Resist the devil; don't just lie down and take it. Actively choosing righteousness is the hard road to travel but the outcome is much easier to live with than the effects of sin. It's gonna be a fight, but keep your sights on God and you can get through anything. So get out there and fight!
 
well if you want this more than God DO IT and stop calling yourself a CHRISTIAN live it up now have all the sex you want but en the end you will be in hell wishing and cursing yourself for not obeying God if you don't hate sin I am starting to dout how much of a Christian you really are I am starting to think you are like the lukewarm church in the bible (REPINT so you will not be vomited out of the mouth of Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
MultilingualMessenger said:
Resisting sin, any sin, is gonna be a fight. Put up a fight. Resist the devil; don't just lie down and take it. Actively choosing righteousness is the hard road to travel but the outcome is much easier to live with than the effects of sin. It's gonna be a fight, but keep your sights on God and you can get through anything. So get out there and fight!
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very true but when you become a true Christian you HATE sin and love the things of God more and more and the more you love God the father sin will go from you it will be less harder as you become more and more in love with our father in heaven.
 
TheBlackDove said:
very true but when you become a true Christian you HATE sin and love the things of God more and more and the more you love God the father sin will go from you it will be less harder as you become more and more in love with our father in heaven.
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I think so too. To obey Him is to love Him. But also, sometimes as you get better and better, bigger and bigger things (read: temptations, attacks, etc.) come at you. But you gotta fight. Sometimes it doesn't seem like people are fighting very hard against sin, you know? They give in to the flesh because it's "easier" or they don't think they can do any better (i.e. "they can't help it"). We are not called to take the easy way out of things and just give in to sin. We gotta fight, and keep fighting.
 
MultilingualMessenger said:
I think so too. To obey Him is to love Him. But also, sometimes as you get better and better, bigger and bigger things (read: temptations, attacks, etc.) come at you. But you gotta fight. Sometimes it doesn't seem like people are fighting very hard against sin, you know? They give in to the flesh because it's "easier" or they don't think they can do any better (i.e. "they can't help it"). We are not called to take the easy way out of things and just give in to sin. We gotta fight, and keep fighting.
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yes yes argh lol I am so gald you agree *Sighs sometimes I feel like its me aginst the world XD but yes I am sorry but he sounds like the lukewarm church ):
 
Levichevett said:
It wasn't exactly sex it was more oral and some other stuff but I guess that doesn't really make it any better
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That is sex Levi! I dont sense that you are remorseful AT ALL. Its pretty simple Levi. Jesus said my friends OBEY my commandments. You love your sin more than you love Christ . That makes you lukewarm. That is IF you were even converted in the first place! You dont seem to have an air of repentance. You sinned and so you go back and sin again? Just because you didnt have intercourse;you did have sex with her. You are guilty of what you imagined in your heart as well because Christ looks at our hearts. You need to examine yourself to see that you are in the faith. It doesnt seem that your mind is changed . Dogs return to their vomit. Is that what you are? Seriously! You are 14!!! You dont even know what sex is. You had better stop and reevaluate before its too late. Jesus said go and sin no more! Period!
 
"I just screw things up that what I do at least u know that's what I'm good at". WOW...and that is the only defense you can come up with? lol lol lol Levi...oh Levi....Yes, be a young man and 'MAN UP". Stop this silly confession online. If you truely want to confess, do it on your knees before GOD, alone, or at an altar and let HIM forgive and start you fresh and new, with a new mindset and attitude..otherwise, we will be hearing from you a year from now with the same issue but this time with a newborn baby to worry over.
 
pwrnJC said:
"I just screw things up that what I do at least u know that's what I'm good at". WOW...and that is the only defense you can come up with? lol lol lol Levi...oh Levi....Yes, be a young man and 'MAN UP". Stop this silly confession online. If you truely want to confess, do it on your knees before GOD, alone, or at an altar and let HIM forgive and start you fresh and new, with a new mindset and attitude..otherwise, we will be hearing from you a year from now with the same issue but this time with a newborn baby to worry over.
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if hse does not have it killed ):
 
Levichevett said:
And what if I'm not good enough
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NONE of us are good enough. We ALL deserve to go to hell. BUT God created us knowing full well that we will sin, time and time again. You just need to try your best in life, but it seems like you're not giving 100% of what you should be.. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, that ain't gonna do no good to blubber like a child. You are a sinner. Accept that, own up to it, and do something about it. You CAN resist temptation, and your thought of "what if I'm not good enough" is coming straigh from hell.. :/

Stop seeing Olivia, and stop having sex because clearly you are not ready for it, nor do you fully understand the massive consequences of being so careless with sex, and the two of you are wayyy too young to be having sex, with each other OR other people.. Go enjoy being a kid and let Olivia go.. If this baby is not yours, you are NOT responsible for it in any way, shape or form..
 
TheBlackDove said:
very true but when you become a true Christian you HATE sin and love the things of God more and more and the more you love God the father sin will go from you it will be less harder as you become more and more in love with our father in heaven.
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Amen ! Preach brother! I am so proud of you. You are very young but yet you "get it". Just imagine what Christ has in store for you in your life ahead! It sounds like you read your Bible and your mind is being renewed.
 
I've got 7hrs 30mins left until this baby is gonna be killed. I don't care if this baby isn't even mine it's a human life and that makes it inportant to me. So can yall stop telling me I'm a bad person cos rn I don't really care about me but if u can help me deal with tbis abortion any way then please go ahead and I'll listen.
 
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