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blue_ladybug

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pwrnJC said:
Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
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Not once in my post did I blame this site for my troubles.. How did I exist before the internet? I existed day by day with God's grace upon me.. I work face to face with real people everyday, mister. You have no idea what I witness with people everyday here, and by here I mean at home and in my own life. You're part of this "internet drama" also, pwrn.. I don't need you to spout the bible to me, I know what it says.. I also know that Jesus ranted from time to time. Would you tell HIM "what kind of person he is"? Somehow I don't think you would dare to..
 
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pwrnJC said:
Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
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okay, here's the thing...

this is the BDF safe place. where people can honestly express themselves.
you are welcome, if you can refrain from being judge, jury and executioner.

you don't know bluebug, or her life, or what else she may be dealing with.

understood?
 
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VioletReigns

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"Somebody" is now on ignore because love does not dishonor others, especially a lady who is hurting.
 
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blue_ladybug said:
Not once in my post did I blame this site for my troubles.. How did I exist before the internet? I existed day by day with God's grace upon me.. I work face to face with real people everyday, mister. You have no idea what I witness with people everyday here, and by here I mean at home and in my own life. You're part of this "internet drama" also, pwrn.. I don't need you to spout the bible to me, I know what it says.. I also know that Jesus ranted from time to time. Would you tell HIM "what kind of person he is"? Somehow I don't think you would dare to..
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Ladybug, you are one awesome person, and you enrich us all with your determination to make this forum more positive. I know you are going through a lot in your life and I am keeping you in prayers.

I think you need to do what WV and I do - use the ignore button for haters.

God bless!
 
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pwrnJC said:
Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
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What in the world? do you read what you just said? you say all that hurtful and mean things and the say God bless you. That's like me punching you in the face beating you down then saying in a loving tone God bless you
 
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blue_ladybug said:
Not once in my post did I blame this site for my troubles.. How did I exist before the internet? I existed day by day with God's grace upon me.. I work face to face with real people everyday, mister. You have no idea what I witness with people everyday here, and by here I mean at home and in my own life. You're part of this "internet drama" also, pwrn.. I don't need you to spout the bible to me, I know what it says.. I also know that Jesus ranted from time to time. Would you tell HIM "what kind of person he is"? Somehow I don't think you would dare to..
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Bug, it's ok. Dont let him bother you. We're around you. God's love surrounds you.
 
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psychomom

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we sure do get some exercise chasing off some folks. :rolleyes:

*wonders if i should feel bad. decides against it* ;)
 
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skylove7

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To pwrnJC....
You always have a rude selfish attitude. No one pays attention to you. You have no care for anything anyone goes thru. You always tell people off. Besides you been here since December and you have one rep u likely bought on clearance at Kmart. Why dont you post when you buy some compassion with a heart that loves only yourself. I do not believe BLB got all her reps from letting the likes of you be her mentor! Oh btw...pick on me all you like...I will only laugh at your rude ways
:) Good day
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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VioletReigns said:
That's exactly what happened with me, Lady Blue. :( I got tired of pretending that I was ok when I was tied up in knots about all the friction and debating and unreasonable meanness. I felt so sad that there was so resolution.

But while I was away, I realized that this site is just one small window to the whole wide world. This site is just another social media outlet. It's not a church and it's not a body of unified believers. There's never going to be perfect peace in this place except between the Father and the ones who are His own.

Yes, there are many true Christians on this site, but even they don't all agree. Nevertheless, I got so sick and tired of harboring disappointment and agitation with those who bludgeon others with scripture, that the only way I can avoid it is to avoid them; to put them on ignore.

I hope I didn't come off sounding self-righteous. The reason I chose to ignore some people is because I don't want to be a meanie and a bully myself. Oswald Chambers ("My Utmost for His Highest" author) wrote that we should not look at others as if there's no hope for them. I don't want to do that either. So I will pray for them instead but also stay away from them so I don't interfere with what God is doing in their lives. I don't think I am better than "them", I think we are all in the same boat, learning and growing in Christ Jesus.

As for your being sad and depressed, my heart hurts to hear that. I know you go through tough battles and I long for you to be healed and feeling better. I send hugs and love your way, dear lady.

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Thank you, Violet. :) To be truthful, I'm shocked that more people haven't left this place yet.. I've seen both newbies and reglars throw their hands up in defeat of the contention on here. They don't want to be in it or around it.. and that is sad and disgusting to me. They come here expecting good times and fellowship and they get mud slung at them..
 
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I sort of went into protective mode there for a sec I had to hold back some of my words
 
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Sirk

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This is a nonjudgmental thread and I would prefer to keep it that. You who would tear someone down need to practice some empathy for another and say something nice...like you understand and that you are sorry that someone feels down.
 
blue_ladybug

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psychomom said:
okay, here's the thing...

this is the BDF safe place. where people can honestly express themselves.
you are welcome, if you can refrain from being judge, jury and executioner.

you don't know bluebug, or her life, or what else she may be dealing with.

understood?
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Like skylove said, all pwrn ever is, is rude and hateful and judgemental. It's the truth and he knows it..
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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pwrnJC said:
Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
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God bless you also as you leave this thread.. :)
 
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skylove7

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People that are selfish and cruel to others hurting only come to these forums to listen to themselves. Sad really. I pray for heartless people. It makes me shiver ew...:(
 
blue_ladybug

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psychomom said:
Father, i come to You for Lady Blue. she feels the sadness we all do over the way things are.
but You, oh, Lord abound in mercy and lovingkindness for Your people.
You are our stay, our sun and our shield, and very present help in time of trouble. You commend us to cast our cares on You...

because You truly do care for us. please help my sister to throw all this in Your very capable hands,
and remind her heart how very dear she is to You and to us.
remind her You will never allow the wicked to prosper and for the sake of Your great Name You will fulfill each and every good Promise You have made us.

help us to love one another, please kind Sir, just as You have loved us.
may we stand together in the day of trouble and see Your salvation, for Jesus' sake, amen.


i love you, bluebug ♥
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thank you, Ellie.. I appreciate your prayers.. I love you too.. :)
 
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