Your perfect wedding?

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greg789

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I know I know, a guy never starts this conversation, nor do I ever talk about this ever, I always kinda knew I could be single forever, but yeah, thought I could maybe share this I guess, I saw this show and it reminded me the one thing that would be pretty cool to have, Rain, I'd be out doors while it rained on me, there would be some type of shelter for the guest I guess like tents or what ever, but yeah, there would probably not be any guess on my side but Jesus any ways since I probably wouldn't get Married til I finally hit 200 years but yeah......
 
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mystikmind

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greg789 said:
I know I know, a guy never starts this conversation, nor do I ever talk about this ever, I always kinda knew I could be single forever, but yeah, thought I could maybe share this I guess, I saw this show and it reminded me the one thing that would be pretty cool to have, Rain, I'd be out doors while it rained on me, there would be some type of shelter for the guest I guess like tents or what ever, but yeah, there would probably not be any guess on my side but Jesus any ways since I probably wouldn't get Married til I finally hit 200 years but yeah......
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You should hire yourself out to people who want outdoor weddings.... as someone who wants rain, you would counteract whatever is that magnetic force that seems to draw rain in to outdoor weddings!! lol
 
Lynx

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Someone been watching waaaaaay too many rom-coms. Look, no matter what they show in the movies, pneumonia is NOT romantic.
 
secularhermit

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I´m not fond of weddings, because I see them a costly vanity (and someone has to pay for it).

Here´s the leak:

The place I´m working now, has an apartment where that woman in there has more than a couple of those pictures that were taken when she married someone I thought who was normal... The things I saw looked well, costly and well planned but, I have a hunch these are going to be divorce soon...

The investment these should have done could be another but, each person has the right to pursue what they want (that was theirs, and is their money, not mine)... And when I worked for them (Ha! Ha!) these were hard to pay: That´s what I called the funnel lesson!
 
p_rehbein

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Everyone's at the Church all ready to go.............I'm on the Lake, and the FISH ARE BITING! :)
 
gypsygirl

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my perfect wedding?

elopement, followed by an extended honeymoon holiday.
 
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jennymae

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p_rehbein said:
Everyone's at the Church all ready to go.............I'm on the Lake, and the FISH ARE BITING! :)
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Sooo...when the bride said you gonna fish or cut bait you actually did go fishing;)
 
ChandlerFan

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I've not really ever thought about all the details of a wedding, but one thing I have thought about is music. I have maybe four or five certain songs that I think would be cool to play on different parts of the wedding day. I have one envisioned for the processional, sort of a prayer time in the middle of the ceremony, the recessional, etc. I don't plan on them all necessarily being used, though.
 
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cmarieh

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Hmmm. Something I have dreamt about since I was little. I have wanted a small wedding like fifty guests tops because I have a large family, but would happily decrease the amount of guests. I don't want the men including the groom to wear tuxedos/suits and ties. I actually like a nice plaid shirt and pants for them. Then for the bridesmaids, I prefer to have them wear a cute dress that is either hand made or doesn't cost a lot of money. For the wedding cake I think it would be really romantic if the groom and I were to make the cake together and help decorate it. I think it would make it more personalized than if somebody else did all the work.

I know I don't ask for much and I think it was where I grew up. I am a country girl through and through. I used to play in the mud and not afraid to get dirty, still am. All I ask is that my dad gives me away and whoever I marry loves God more than he loves me, and we give our marriage to God.
 
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cmarieh

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cmarieh said:
Hmmm. Something I have dreamt about since I was little. I have wanted a small wedding like fifty guests tops because I have a large family, but would happily decrease the amount of guests. I don't want the men including the groom to wear tuxedos/suits and ties. I actually like a nice plaid shirt and pants for them. Then for the bridesmaids, I prefer to have them wear a cute dress that is either hand made or doesn't cost a lot of money. For the wedding cake I think it would be really romantic if the groom and I were to make the cake together and help decorate it. I think it would make it more personalized than if somebody else did all the work.

I know I don't ask for much and I think it was where I grew up. I am a country girl through and through. I used to play in the mud and not afraid to get dirty, still am. All I ask is that my dad gives me away and whoever I marry loves God more than he loves me, and we give our marriage to God.
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I think I messed up on the guys outfits. What I meant by checkered is having the shirt be a solid color with a little detail. Now that i messed up I am a little embarrassed. :eek:
 
melita916

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i'm one of the rare women who didn't start making wedding plans as a child lol if i get married, it will be a simple wedding. and since chuck taylors is my signature look, i'll be wearing a pair with my wedding dress lol
 
secularhermit

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My ex wife, who is good at making money, rented her wedding dress and, next day (or days) she rented THAT SAME DRESS to others she knew would be married her church so, she made some extra money before returning it back to that store...

Ha! Ha!

Hope this trick served others.
 
tourist

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We eloped in Las Vegas in the Hilton Grand Resort on Thanksgiving Day of last year. Witnesses were 2 bell hops and a maid. Afterward we enjoyed a turkey dinner with trimmings in the dining room. Later, watched some football. Oh, there was time for that too.
 
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skylove7

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Oh Melita! You are beautiful and rare! Take it from me Melita....the world is full of wolves out there! They tried hard to devour but I refused! Single women we maybe but we are strong Melita! In Christ we are strong! Lol...besides...Within the evil and darkness and despair of the world, I'd rather
Live! Beautiful alone with God,....than in low self respect in a convieniant relationship! You GO Melita, you represent single, beautiful women! Though you don't know me personal...Melita you are beautiful! A sister....In Christ....I love you Melita!...now pass the chocolate y'all! We celebratin' Christian LOVE up in here!....praising God! Hallelujah
 
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friends of mine while planning a wedding would say "man, we should just elope!!!!!!" lol as i was helping them with decorations and whatnots, i would say, "all this stuff for a wedding? n'oombre. let me just have a BBQ in the back yard!"

"melita, have your BBQ! we'll celebrate your wedding however you wanna!" hahaha
 
melita916

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skylove7 said:
Oh Melita! You are beautiful and rare! Take it from me Melita....the world is full of wolves out there! They tried hard to devour but I refused! Single women we maybe but we are strong Melita! In Christ we are strong! Lol...besides...Within the evil and darkness and despair of the world, I'd rather
Live! Beautiful alone with God,....than in low self respect in a convieniant relationship! You GO Melita, you represent single, beautiful women! Though you don't know me personal...Melita you are beautiful! A sister....In Christ....I love you Melita!...now pass the chocolate y'all! We celebratin' Christian LOVE up in here!....praising God! Hallelujah
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skylove, you are fabulous! :)
 
tourist

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melita916 said:
friends of mine while planning a wedding would say "man, we should just elope!!!!!!" lol as i was helping them with decorations and whatnots, i would say, "all this stuff for a wedding? n'oombre. let me just have a BBQ in the back yard!"

"melita, have your BBQ! we'll celebrate your wedding however you wanna!" hahaha
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My brother got married in his backyard. Afterwards there was BBQ, refreshments, swimming in the pool and volleyball. This was years ago when I was still a drinking man. I may have been a little tipsy.
 
kodiak

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tourist said:
We eloped in Las Vegas in the Hilton Grand Resort on Thanksgiving Day of last year. Witnesses were 2 bell hops and a maid. Afterward we enjoyed a turkey dinner with trimmings in the dining room. Later, watched some football. Oh, there was time for that too.
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That sounds interesting. I am not a fan of fancy weddings...just give me a tiny wedding and let me help with decorating and preparing....I helped make the cake, food, and decorations for my sisters' weddings. I actually was the witness for one of my sister's wedding....
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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I'm far less apt to being wed than I am to being married.

If am to end up with someone, I'd like to steer towards what gypsygirl said:
gypsygirl said:
my perfect wedding?

elopement, followed by an extended honeymoon holiday.
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seoulsearch

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gypsygirl said:
my perfect wedding?

elopement, followed by an extended honeymoon holiday.
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Gypsy, you and I should get married!! (Or at least, plan each others' weddings.) We are totally on the same wavelength.

My ideal wedding would be cheap, fast, and on to the honeymoon, PRONTO.
 
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