This is very true, but it's also true that I walked right into this. Seems like one minute it was 4:00, we were in the conference room at work, walking down the aisle in our suits and bow ties, organ music playing. This one girl performed the wedding. We did the "I do's," exchanged wedding vows, then exchanged these little plastic rings they'd come up with, the "With this ring I thee wed" thing. Then she's pronouncing us "wed as groom and groom." Yes, there was a kiss, organ music started and we processed back out. Everyone came out and congratulated us. After things calmed down, we'd walked to his office. Once we were alone, talking, suddenly I heard the words coming out of my mouth: "Will you marry me - for real?" He's like, "Huh? You serious?" I said, "Yes." He asked, "When?" I said, "How about now?" After a couple of minutes in the office, we exited and told the department. Next thing I know, we're walking through downtown to the courthouse with a bunch of our co-workers. We find the clerk of the court's office, fill out some papers, then we're ushered into this little chapel they have there. Next thing I know, we're arm-in-arm, walking down the aisle to where the clerk of the court is standing. Several minutes and another wedding later, we're being pronounced wed once more." I'm still in a state of shock a little bit.