Streams of Sub-Consciousness Thoughts

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I will try to go on the topic that was on the first post.

Im realizing that I have a tendancy to settle for men that I think will be interested in me, not ones that I necissarily like. It stems from my general insecurity of being left all alone, so I tend to lean towards men that I know wouldnt leave me.

Horrible I know, but Im just now figuring out that I do that, so at least there's hope I can change this behavior for my own sake and the man's as well.
 
The fact that "thoughts" exist, and "sub-consciousness" exists, but that "sub-consciousness thoughts" does not...makes my brain hurt. Subconsiousness is a noun, not an adjective. Also, being aware of your subconscious thoughts makes them conscious, not subconscious. Therefore, EVEN BEFORE YOU VERBALIZE THEM, the moment you are aware of your subconscious thoughts, they immediately cease to be subconscious.

I agree with this, but...

it doesn't make me feel any less confused.
 
A full on relationship doesn't seem like it's going to happen in the near future, and I think I'm fine with that, feels like a big transitional period in my life atm, I couldn't fully invest myself in someone else, Nor would I want someone to invest so heavily in me. I used to put so much emphasis on finding a girlfriend but not anymore.
 
I will try to go on the topic that was on the first post.

Im realizing that I have a tendancy to settle for men that I think will be interested in me, not ones that I necissarily like. It stems from my general insecurity of being left all alone, so I tend to lean towards men that I know wouldnt leave me.

Horrible I know, but Im just now figuring out that I do that, so at least there's hope I can change this behavior for my own sake and the man's as well.

I would keep leaning to finding a man who would be faithful and true and would never leave you. Somewhere, out there, there is a man looking for a woman that would be faithful and true and would never leave him. One day God will cause your paths to cross. There is nothing wrong with your behavior.
 
I am sitting here amazed that the Lord is trusting in my care a woman with deep inner and outer beauty that will become my wife in 10 days. I have done nothing to deserve such an honor and a privilege and I can only give thanks to the Lord. I will be proud to have her as my wife and I promise to always be faithful and loving towards her as her husband.
 
It is time to say goodnight to my many dear friends. God willing, I will be back on CC on Dec 1 and I am saying a prayer for all. God Bless Everyone.
 
I believe that I am suffering from jet lag and that I am still functioning on Las Vegas time. I think that I will brew a double espresso and let the chips fall where they may.
 
I have a tendency to be attracted and repelled slightly to nerds. Common interests attract me, but some of their tendencies to be a little on the....pervy side repel me a bit.
 
You don't know me!

(Gimme five)

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I have it on good word that this guy wrote a better treatise on the will...

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