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gracewijaya

gracewijaya

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I am not being bullied really. But these 4 boys keep calling me and my friends weird nicknames ( that we dont know whats the meaning of our nicknames) , throwing foods, and sometimes laughing when we passed by. Its kinda annoying because we know that they talk bad about us a lot and they even judging our looks. Like for example, my friend is short and small. They'll shout at us " HEY YOU SKELETON! DONT U HAVE ANY MEAT! ALL U HAVE ARE FARTS!" But we don't really care about them anymore. Because nowadays they stop shouting at us like that ( but they still laugh at us when we passed by. Oh well; but who cares).

And when there was a camp in my school, these 4 guys are going to graduate next year. So they and their classmates all were taking pictures, and I was sitting right beside them. So they needed a help to take a class picture ( that boys were in that class), one of the boys are calling me because they needed me to take class pictures. After taking it, one of the 4 boys was asking whether I want to take a picture with him. And I said " no", but he hold my wrist he said " come on". And then I took a picture with him.

After the camp, my friend looked at his instagram, and guess what? He uploaded our picture together BUT he edited my face into a scary ghost. With a caption " you psycho". And I got angry and sad. Everyone in his class are liking that picture and comment " oh what a dumb". What do u think I should do? Should I just talk to him and say " why would u call me a psycho?" Or just, let it go and just pray without him knowing that it makes my heart break!
 
Well it can be very confusing to know what to do when it comes to interacting with bullies and sorts. I mean yeah it hurts and we all can sometimes just not take it anymore, happens to me all the time. But you know, Christ says to love your enemies, and that's even if you call them an enemy.

But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you. Matthew 5:44

So it may not necessarily be what you choose to do, but more of why you choose to do it. You should talk to him about the things he's doing because you're worried about him and where he goes. So yeah, like the verse, I would pray for him who despitefully uses you, and it isn't a bad thing to tell him that it makes your heart break. Whether he throws food at you and mocks you, or just even laughs at you while he walks by, it's something to pray about. Because it's a problem, yes you would want to ask him why he did that and called you a psycho, but it a way that you're more worried about his sake and not with anger or frustration and believe me, I can lose it with people hah
I'll definitely be praying for him
 
Don't do it. These people make fun of your looks, and now what a picture of you. What is the likelihood their motives are anything but bad with that photo? Chances are there is a reason behind wanting to get your picture, and its probably not good.
 
@ GraceJaya

"" HEY YOU SKELETON! DONT U HAVE ANY MEAT! ALL U HAVE ARE FARTS!""

I never heard that in Venezuela. If they told you that, no doubt they are ruder than us.

I used to be rude, but this guys are above my level.
 
Well, you know what my pastor said about bullies? At first you pray, then you say something about it and if it doesn't stop after that, well, you just kick their ass. But if they are going to leave school soon, i'd just pray :) you'll be fine ;)
 
we had 2 kids in my home town kill them selves last weekend becuse bullies one was 14 year old freshman 17 yera old senior
 
These boys are JERKS!! All I have to say don't confront them, specially if you are alone! Pray for them, ask the Lord to put conviction in their hearts. However if they continue w the names I would approach the principal. Do not approach the principal alone I would have some back up from your friends who have also witnessed the verbal abuse. Meanwhile also pray for a spirit of discernment and ask the Holy Spirit to guide you and give u wisdom how to deal w those unsensitive Jerks! God Bless you and feel free to send me a mess when ever u feel down or want to talk.

Samuel (GodsGuy16)
 
Thomasmattheus said:
Well, you know what my pastor said about bullies? At first you pray, then you say something about it and if it doesn't stop after that, well, you just kick their ass. But if they are going to leave school soon, i'd just pray :) you'll be fine ;)
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Please watch the language.
 
Hmm... Some social media have the option or reporting posts / pictures. I stay away from instagram though, so I have no idea how it works.

As has been said, if you are leaving school soon, ignore them. ("Forgive your enemies, for by doing so, you gather burning coals on their heads")
 
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