Well, it was a 5 year old boy that died. And I was talking to a friend that knew the Mom (well, not sure if she was a real life friend, but definitely facebook friend) and messaged me about it since I shared a photo that brought the subject up. But I thought of ways to put it, and I just couldn't find a good way to say, "Didn't know them." because everything I could think of sounded impersonal, and other terms sounded too personal, like I was right beside them when he was buried. Felt like I couldn't win. Probly should have went with child. But also... she messaged me when I was tired and half-paying attention. That's the problem with the internet. If it was in real life, I probably would have said something different or if I did say kid, I would have said it in the least offensive tone (and people probably wouldn't have thought twice...or so I think. I dunno.). But at least it'd have my full attention, and I wouldn't just think up a quick response and press enter. Y'know what I mean?