i need some advice..fom anyone?!?

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heyy everyone, im new to this site. But i need some advice. so i grew up catholic, thats how my dad wanted to raise me, my mom is (or used to be) christian, my older sister and her husband are christian now and my other older sister is catholic. I've been telling my sister (the one that's christian) that i dont have in interest in the church my dad goes to and she invited me to go with her to her church to see if i liked that one better, but i dont know if i should because when my dad found out that my sister switched churches he kinda got mad. im pretty much stuck in the middle here, my sister got me a bible and i've been reading that but i really wanted to ty he church out but i dont want my dad finding out! its just that i think about everything else when i'm in the church my dad goes to, i can never keep my attention on the mass. i don't know what to do, can anyone help?!?​
 
this is a tough place to be in wow. your father cant force his faith onto you. he doesnt have that right. yes i understand that he is your father but he has no right to choose your faith for you. im sure he would much rather you be a christian than someone who doesnt believe in anything. our parents raise us to make good choices. they wont always agree with what you do, but if you sit him down i try to explain whats going on he may understand or he may not. but you have to do what is right for you not him not your sisters ar your mom, YOU. have faith and trust and believe in what God can do for his children.
 
Good day to u, in-the- middle:
Your relationship with God has nothing to do with the opinions of your family members. God will not judge you based on what they did but based on what you have done with the life He has given you. Read you Bible and follow all that it says. Pray and ask God's Holy Spirit to tell you what church to attend and which way to go. God can read the desires of your heart and He knows your sincerity. He will not hesitate to guide you, only be willing to surrender all to Him. May God bless, guide and keep you my friend.
 
in-the-middle-1825 said:
heyy everyone, im new to this site. But i need some advice. so i grew up catholic, thats how my dad wanted to raise me, my mom is (or used to be) christian, my older sister and her husband are christian now and my other older sister is catholic. I've been telling my sister (the one that's christian) that i dont have in interest in the church my dad goes to and she invited me to go with her to her church to see if i liked that one better, but i dont know if i should because when my dad found out that my sister switched churches he kinda got mad. im pretty much stuck in the middle here, my sister got me a bible and i've been reading that but i really wanted to ty he church out but i dont want my dad finding out! its just that i think about everything else when i'm in the church my dad goes to, i can never keep my attention on the mass. i don't know what to do, can anyone help?!?​
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Follow your instincs & from it i can tell that you dont want to go to your dads church & you would rather go to a christian church.
Your dad should still be happy that you want to get closer to God & if he gets mad at you for reading the bible dont listen to him please because honestly he should understand SINCE he also believes in the SAME REAL God who is Jehovah father of Jesus Christ from nazareth.
Please pray to God to help you & not let your father get angry or get in your way to wanting to become closer to God & go to christian church, Speak to your sister To help you even if it means moving in with her or Speak to your mother if you can & see if she will go to christian church again.
Remember this God should come first meaning dont pick your father over God PICK your TRUE father who is God over your human father.
Yes honer your father & mother BUT when they get in the way from you getting close to GOd you should seperate from those who get in your way or help them see that God is the way.
I prayed for you & i pray that others also pray for you & God hears all our prayers :D
 
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