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J
Nah, the singleness is the cause of my virginity. 
I intend to homeschool in the event that I must choose.
I am not a big fan of birth control.
Totally against abortion.
I am against a lot of "amenities" such as makeup, jewelry, tattoos, etc. Having them before is one thing, but with a ring on the finga betta be no more of that.
I believe the earth is 6k years old, worldwide flood, etc...
I am a committed Calvinist.
Limits the selection a lot, so that helps with the singleness/virginity issue. For the time being, it also is a matter of timidity. I am glad that I am slightly timid when it comes to the women folk. It makes it harder to sin.
I think the issue of bad apples depends on where you look. Start with the church goers.
J
That's not what should make us feel good, or pretty.
1 Peter 3:3-4
New International Version (NIV)
3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
1 Peter 3:3-4
New International Version (NIV)
3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
Wow, so this is awkward...so last week we had the thread about numbers and I said I didn't what a girl with high numbers...yeah the virgin thing is a negative too. I don't know, I have dated virgins and we never did anything which I'm fine with, but then they would inevitably bring up my sexual past, just out of curiosity/wanting to know if there were any issues, whatever I'm not opposed to talking about it. However long story short, I realized that all these girls who had grown up and stayed virgins tended to be from overly protective families and were rather naive. I don't want to deal with that in a marriage when the time for sex becomes appropriate. I know I'm terrible but this is why I will probably forever stay single, I'm just too picky.
How does modest make-up defile women?
He instructs women to develop their inner beauty first. It doesn't indicate that they are to look ugly but they are develop their inner character in a way that is pleasing to God. Just because a woman wants to make herself attractive that doesn’t mean that she’s promiscuous! Makeup and jewelry are acceptable if worn in moderation.A woman should not be so focused on her outer appearance to the point that she neglects her inner spiritual life.
@ GIA "...they eventually expect sex."
your are a smart and challenging girl.
Don´t lose it. Once it is lost, as I said to my daughter, many would think "you are useless" or "I don´t trust that woman". And I´m talking from my culture views.
Before I was "Christian", I never touched chastity, becase I NEVER PLANNED TO MARRY. It was a wild life that I lived, and chastity is not a proof to loyalty who spares anyone from being cheated.
Many who are "virgins", in fact, long for many men, and that also happens to married women and men (namely adultery).
You´re not a thing! I hope God brings you the BEST "Mr Right".
your are a smart and challenging girl.
Don´t lose it. Once it is lost, as I said to my daughter, many would think "you are useless" or "I don´t trust that woman". And I´m talking from my culture views.
Before I was "Christian", I never touched chastity, becase I NEVER PLANNED TO MARRY. It was a wild life that I lived, and chastity is not a proof to loyalty who spares anyone from being cheated.
Many who are "virgins", in fact, long for many men, and that also happens to married women and men (namely adultery).
You´re not a thing! I hope God brings you the BEST "Mr Right".
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