okay, i will break it down for you young lady. What attracts men to women is her physical appearance. When it comes to women it is more than looks that attracts them to men. This can be traced back to the time when man was a hunter and a gather. The men that killed the animal or gathered the most where the ones getting the girls. Like it has been said in other forums the guy has to be able to provide for his future wife. Also in women attraction has to be ignited. Women look for confidence in a guy,power,sence of humor, money,and etc