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It seems to me you are stating that I can do something contrary to God's plan but if God wants it to happen it will happen anyway?
An loose analogy would be I can pursue an abortion but if God really wants that child to be born it will happen.
I personally would not live my life that way but I guess everyone has different ideas.
An loose analogy would be I can pursue an abortion but if God really wants that child to be born it will happen.
I personally would not live my life that way but I guess everyone has different ideas.
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Not even close to angry... what your saying is the pill failed, which I get.... what I am saying is that is completely unconnected to its ability to act as an abortificant.
By the way you worded it and since you replied to my statement it made it sound like the fact that it is an abortificant was secondary because if that child is meant to be born it would be.
I was not speaking to the failure rate of the pill at all.
Sorry if you felt misunderstood.. moving on.
By the way you worded it and since you replied to my statement it made it sound like the fact that it is an abortificant was secondary because if that child is meant to be born it would be.
I was not speaking to the failure rate of the pill at all.
Sorry if you felt misunderstood.. moving on.
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I could not find any reference to "aethesicm". I believe he had that word correct. 
Enjoy it when people like to keep to preciseness of language.
I know the movement he is referring to ...but for some reason my word prediction kept changing it.... but I agree he is using the correct term ....aestheticsim refers is a movement in literature and art where the beauty is exalted over the intellectual.
@Elihoenai you had the correct ... sorry c
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Romans 8:13 King James Version (KJV)
13 For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.
Yes, we are going in a totally different direction. When I post it is intended for every member on these forums and non members that might be reading.
You, @EleventhHour, and @Godsgirl83 girly chat has brought out the absolute necessity to Mortify the Flesh. You must weaken the flesh to annihilate those issues you were both discussing.
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Mortification of the flesh
Mortification of the flesh is an act by which an individual or group seeks to mortify, or put to death, their sinful nature, as a part of the process of sanctification.[1] In Christianity, common forms of mortification that are practiced to this day include fasting, abstinence, as well as pious kneeling.[2] Also common among Christian religious orders in the past were the wearing of sackcloth, as well as flagellation in imitation of Jesus of Nazareth's suffering and death by crucifixion.
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13 For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.
Yes, we are going in a totally different direction. When I post it is intended for every member on these forums and non members that might be reading.
You, @EleventhHour, and @Godsgirl83 girly chat has brought out the absolute necessity to Mortify the Flesh. You must weaken the flesh to annihilate those issues you were both discussing.
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Mortification of the flesh
Mortification of the flesh is an act by which an individual or group seeks to mortify, or put to death, their sinful nature, as a part of the process of sanctification.[1] In Christianity, common forms of mortification that are practiced to this day include fasting, abstinence, as well as pious kneeling.[2] Also common among Christian religious orders in the past were the wearing of sackcloth, as well as flagellation in imitation of Jesus of Nazareth's suffering and death by crucifixion.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mortification_of_the_flesh
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"Girly chat" .... so ridiculous.
This guy is obviously starving for affection.
And you can take that comment any way you like.
This guy is obviously starving for affection.
And you can take that comment any way you like.
If it's the upright kind, he should try the Chat app instead of the forums. He can hear people speak there.
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Amen.
My husband would have been aborted if his mom had followed the pressures of the Planned Parenthood clinic and modern society, since she became pregnant with him as a teen. She was adamant that he should live and ran away out of state to protect her baby. Thank God she did. He is alive and well today, and an amazing man of God, wonderful husband, and incredible father.
However, I'd like to acknowledge that the person you were replying to was probably trying to point out that the birth control pills (and Plan B pills especially) can abort an early pregnancy. Unfortunately, those who give out and market these drugs hide this.
My husband would have been aborted if his mom had followed the pressures of the Planned Parenthood clinic and modern society, since she became pregnant with him as a teen. She was adamant that he should live and ran away out of state to protect her baby. Thank God she did. He is alive and well today, and an amazing man of God, wonderful husband, and incredible father.
However, I'd like to acknowledge that the person you were replying to was probably trying to point out that the birth control pills (and Plan B pills especially) can abort an early pregnancy. Unfortunately, those who give out and market these drugs hide this.
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Just letting you members know that I read very carefully and as soon as I identify pro-sexuality or the encouragement of sexual activity, then I stop reading and might avoid any future communications with any pro-sexual member. I can not read pro-sexual content because it's not healthy for me. If you are pro-sexual, then you can reply but I might not read your reply. I welcome asexual and antisexual replies.
I will not communicate with anyone who harasses or criticize me instead of criticizing my antisexuality. You are free to criticize my belief or speech, but do not criticize me: that's very immature, only proving that pro-sexuals have no solid argument and resort to criticizing the speaker instead of his speech.
@Mii Do not underestimate the Almighty's ability to create life.
@Lynx I believe I said some societies, and not all societies, engage in sexual exploitation. And the need for human resources fluctuates over time. At some point, a society might have wanted to decrease a population, including a minority population, but then found some use for such population.
The scariest societies are the ones that use sexual exploitation to produce a lot of humans. Overpopulation occurs. What happens to all those extra humans who can't easily survive due to a lack of resources? Some societies design ways to "dispose" of them, I feel; even with the help of warfare.
My gosh, I'm happy that I'm not driven by the lust and sadomasochism of a modern society where I'd have mindless sex and produce a child. If I have a kid, I'd be through adoption, surrogacy, artificial insemination, reproductive technology, or religious miracles from the Almighty.
@OneOfHis Where I live, marriage costs money. I would not waste my money and rather spend it towards more important things in my life like investing in adoption. Also, marriage puts a lot of sexual pressure on couples, as they are not allowed to have sex with others. I'm not surprised that marital rape exists. Adultery is a criminal offense where I live too; so by avoiding marriage and sex, I avoid being charged with a crime
Some societies go as far as to not flirt with others. Some people assume I'm married and don't want me to compliment them. It's stupid. By avoid sex, I avoid all that stupidity and I get to focus on more important and founded things in my life. I never liked the stupid obstacles of society, especially if they are avoidable.
Some men might need sex but I don't. If a man needs sex, then go marry; else you probably really shouldn't. If you marry, you are likely going to have sex, whether you like sex or not.
I will not communicate with anyone who harasses or criticize me instead of criticizing my antisexuality. You are free to criticize my belief or speech, but do not criticize me: that's very immature, only proving that pro-sexuals have no solid argument and resort to criticizing the speaker instead of his speech.
@Mii Do not underestimate the Almighty's ability to create life.
@Lynx I believe I said some societies, and not all societies, engage in sexual exploitation. And the need for human resources fluctuates over time. At some point, a society might have wanted to decrease a population, including a minority population, but then found some use for such population.
The scariest societies are the ones that use sexual exploitation to produce a lot of humans. Overpopulation occurs. What happens to all those extra humans who can't easily survive due to a lack of resources? Some societies design ways to "dispose" of them, I feel; even with the help of warfare.
My gosh, I'm happy that I'm not driven by the lust and sadomasochism of a modern society where I'd have mindless sex and produce a child. If I have a kid, I'd be through adoption, surrogacy, artificial insemination, reproductive technology, or religious miracles from the Almighty.
@OneOfHis Where I live, marriage costs money. I would not waste my money and rather spend it towards more important things in my life like investing in adoption. Also, marriage puts a lot of sexual pressure on couples, as they are not allowed to have sex with others. I'm not surprised that marital rape exists. Adultery is a criminal offense where I live too; so by avoiding marriage and sex, I avoid being charged with a crime
Some societies go as far as to not flirt with others. Some people assume I'm married and don't want me to compliment them. It's stupid. By avoid sex, I avoid all that stupidity and I get to focus on more important and founded things in my life. I never liked the stupid obstacles of society, especially if they are avoidable.
Some men might need sex but I don't. If a man needs sex, then go marry; else you probably really shouldn't. If you marry, you are likely going to have sex, whether you like sex or not.
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I would state you have explained yourself better the second time round, however @Elihoenai has nothing of value to offer to the discussion.
I am pretty sure being celibate has no direct correlation to spiritual growth... however if some were/are celibate and it is for the cause of service and that certainly can be connected to spiritual growth.
I am pretty sure being celibate has no direct correlation to spiritual growth... however if some were/are celibate and it is for the cause of service and that certainly can be connected to spiritual growth.
I am confused?
If marriage is not important to you, then don't marry.
Not sure why you quoted me but I don't look to others or the world to decide how I feel about Gods design for marriage.
Talking about rape or crime or other societies all hold no weight to wether or not the woman I love who is equally yoked and good for marriage and I will marry.
It is good to remain chaste for God.
It is good to marry under God.
It is good to follow His design for marriage.
It is bad to tag rules of men to God's inspired word.
It is bad to look to something even the world calls a horrible marriage, then say God's design won't work in this day and age.
I will follow Him, you can too.... wether or not you ever marry...
If marriage is not important to you, then don't marry.
Not sure why you quoted me but I don't look to others or the world to decide how I feel about Gods design for marriage.
Talking about rape or crime or other societies all hold no weight to wether or not the woman I love who is equally yoked and good for marriage and I will marry.
It is good to remain chaste for God.
It is good to marry under God.
It is good to follow His design for marriage.
It is bad to tag rules of men to God's inspired word.
It is bad to look to something even the world calls a horrible marriage, then say God's design won't work in this day and age.
I will follow Him, you can too.... wether or not you ever marry...
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Whoops, I didn't know this had multiple pages. Sorry for the double/triple post.
@tourist We are not Adam and Eve who both existed before the great perversion of the world under certain societies. And being fruitful and multiplying can have many different meaning, not necessarily sex. Being fruitful and multiplying can mean conquering other nations, having a lot of fruits, or having a lot of resources; all which that the early Christians/Hebrews did. But of course, some people are perverted or pro-sexual and think that "fruitful and multiply" pertains to sexual intercourse.
@DancingForJesus I wouldn't care if the human race ended, if that meant that women would no longer be sexually exploited. But of course, some heathens would put faith in mankind to maintain populations rather than put faith within the Almighty that has been really doing so.
@melita916 Some people need sex and some don't. I don't. If you feel that you don't need sex, then do not have sex. You will not die if you don't have sex. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into sex either, my friend, even your husband. I've heard of marital rape.
@Gregoryp I do not believe that God created sexual intercourse as a joyful act. If anything, sex is a necessity for men who need it, and nothing more. In fact, there are many restrictions to sex within the bible, further suggesting that sex is a final measure to curb certain men but nothing more. Some rape victims and sex slaves, traumatized by sex, will tell you very surely that sex is not a joyful act.
@Godsgirl83 Do not let your husband force you to have sex. If you don't want to have sex, then lock yourself in some room or bathroom and call a friend to visit. I've heard of marital rape. No husband should be forcing you to have sex, and it should only be through consent.
@tourist We are not Adam and Eve who both existed before the great perversion of the world under certain societies. And being fruitful and multiplying can have many different meaning, not necessarily sex. Being fruitful and multiplying can mean conquering other nations, having a lot of fruits, or having a lot of resources; all which that the early Christians/Hebrews did. But of course, some people are perverted or pro-sexual and think that "fruitful and multiply" pertains to sexual intercourse.
@DancingForJesus I wouldn't care if the human race ended, if that meant that women would no longer be sexually exploited. But of course, some heathens would put faith in mankind to maintain populations rather than put faith within the Almighty that has been really doing so.
@melita916 Some people need sex and some don't. I don't. If you feel that you don't need sex, then do not have sex. You will not die if you don't have sex. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into sex either, my friend, even your husband. I've heard of marital rape.
@Gregoryp I do not believe that God created sexual intercourse as a joyful act. If anything, sex is a necessity for men who need it, and nothing more. In fact, there are many restrictions to sex within the bible, further suggesting that sex is a final measure to curb certain men but nothing more. Some rape victims and sex slaves, traumatized by sex, will tell you very surely that sex is not a joyful act.
@Godsgirl83 Do not let your husband force you to have sex. If you don't want to have sex, then lock yourself in some room or bathroom and call a friend to visit. I've heard of marital rape. No husband should be forcing you to have sex, and it should only be through consent.
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