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I guess to Re-Rail the Thread.
In America its kind of Rough to find someone who didn't grow up in church and have a relationship with Christ. Sometimes people need to be reminded that love values innocent things.
For a while I was dying to run off into the world and sew my wild crops but, One of the Women that I grew up with and Really Really liked, came into my life as an Adult and in a way she reminded me of what the Truth is.
With all of this said though, I have found that in Church circles if there is someone that I like. I feel as though I have to sort of Tread water and talk to all of her friends and get their approval first. Or maybe its just in my hometown.
In America its kind of Rough to find someone who didn't grow up in church and have a relationship with Christ. Sometimes people need to be reminded that love values innocent things.
For a while I was dying to run off into the world and sew my wild crops but, One of the Women that I grew up with and Really Really liked, came into my life as an Adult and in a way she reminded me of what the Truth is.
With all of this said though, I have found that in Church circles if there is someone that I like. I feel as though I have to sort of Tread water and talk to all of her friends and get their approval first. Or maybe its just in my hometown.
There is a LOT more Drama to be dispatched in Dating a Christian. There is the scrutiny of everyone. The levels of acceptable accountability from people. The judgemental, you should be Courting escorted over tea in 17th Century regalia crowd.
There are the people who give you books. "Here a little John Eldridge for ya.
" ...um, I've owned this before but okay.
There are the people who try to Pray that God's will be done in your relationship, ie I hope they break up soon.
There is the annoying, SO... when are you kids getting married or have you picked out baby names yet GUY. -he never happens when dating Worldly chic.
There are the people who give you books. "Here a little John Eldridge for ya.
" ...um, I've owned this before but okay. There are the people who try to Pray that God's will be done in your relationship, ie I hope they break up soon.
There is the annoying, SO... when are you kids getting married or have you picked out baby names yet GUY. -he never happens when dating Worldly chic.
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There is a LOT more Drama to be dispatched in Dating a Christian. There is the scrutiny of everyone. The levels of acceptable accountability from people. The judgemental, you should be Courting escorted over tea in 17th Century regalia crowd.
There are the people who give you books. "Here a little John Eldridge for ya." ...um, I've owned this before but okay.
There are the people who try to Pray that God's will be done in your relationship, ie I hope they break up soon.
There is the annoying, SO... when are you kids getting married or have you picked out baby names yet GUY. -he never happens when dating Worldly chic.
There are the people who give you books. "Here a little John Eldridge for ya.
" ...um, I've owned this before but okay. There are the people who try to Pray that God's will be done in your relationship, ie I hope they break up soon.
There is the annoying, SO... when are you kids getting married or have you picked out baby names yet GUY. -he never happens when dating Worldly chic.
Accountability is great. I think every couple needs it. However, there's accountability and then there's stalking. People think it's their "duty" to get involved in your relationship, but what they're ACTUALLY doing is exercising their need to stick their nose into someone's business. When you run into people like that, I say politely tell them you have accountability and otherwise you'd prefer to keep your relationship to yourself. What's so wrong with that? You're not accountable to everyone everywhere. I think it's stupid that most Christians think they have a right to speak into someone's life. Speak into my life, absolutely, but don't assume I'm going to follow your counsel just because you butted in. I'm going to pray about it, I'm going to test the spirits, I'm not going to let just anyone guide me.
If I'm wrong folks, correct me.
If I'm wrong folks, correct me.
I think there are quite a lot of Christian men who do not belong to a church, they must just be more difficult for women to find. For example, myself, I have a lot of differences as a Messianic which is why I do not agree with majority of churches.
Definitely do not take someone for the sake of entering a relationship. If you do not like them for who they are, do not even go there.
I myself am a bit more open towards other faiths, but as long as they believe in the same God as me, for example I have not ruled out dating Jewish or Muslim.
Definitely do not take someone for the sake of entering a relationship. If you do not like them for who they are, do not even go there.
I myself am a bit more open towards other faiths, but as long as they believe in the same God as me, for example I have not ruled out dating Jewish or Muslim.