In all seriousness being head of household is a weighty task. The husband is the spiritual leader/pastor of the house and should live accordingly. He is leading in that he is exemplifying Christ-like qualities in everything he does. This is more for the sake of children than for the wife. A man's leadership has different meaning for wife and children. For wife, the husband's leadership means taking ownership of responsibilities, facing difficult issues head on, etc. The children should not be privy to some of these adult issues. For children, the husband's leadership means he provides direction/teaching/instruction on how to be a good Christian.