Why?

[bevblues]

Sorry I am looking for someone closer to my age, and I am not money hungry
Yes I agree to a point about your comment

 

[Ruby123]

I suspect a 70 year old male would be interested in a 50 year old female
Men tend to be superficial, they are generally looking for someone younger, while women are looking for $$$.

If you think I'm wrong, just go on a dating sight, use your drivers license photo, and include that your flat broke. Responses will be zip.

This question may get me into trouble but why do men chase younger women not older or a similar age esp 30 plus.

 

[Miri]

This question may get me into trouble but why do men chase younger women not older or a similar age esp 30 plus.

Probably because they are looking for a carer instead of a wife. Lol

 

[Ruby123]

Probably because they are looking for a carer instead of a wife. Lol

Quite possibly so

 

[Dan58]

This question may get me into trouble but why do men chase younger women not older or a similar age esp 30 plus.

I was being a tad sarcastic, but the answer is obvious. Younger women are generally prettier, less wrinkles, and thinner. Not all men, but the superficial ones would rather have a fox on their arm rather than a grandma .

 

[Mezame83]

So good to have Jesus
Never alone with Jesus however it’s nice to wrap your arms around a person for a cuddle is nice
It’s nice to talk a conversation face to face with a person

Many have experienced loneliness but I want to encourage you that Jesus is enough. When we draw near to Him, He will draw near to us. There's no greater intimacy then that spent alone with Jesus. He's all sufficient. His love is measureless.

 

[Didymous]

This question may get me into trouble but why do men chase younger women not older or a similar age esp 30 plus.

For me, it was the other way. I was always interested in older women.

 

[Ruby123]

For me, it was the other way. I was always interested in older women.

That is unusual, it generally is the other way around.

 

[Adstar]

This question may get me into trouble but why do men chase younger women not older or a similar age esp 30 plus.

Most men either consciously or subconsciously are always looking for a fertile woman to have kids with.. If a man is comparing two woman the younger one will nearly always win because she will have a higher chance and more opportunities to bare Children..

Even guys who are not looking to have Children will prefer the younger just out of instinct..

 

[Lynx]

Most men either consciously or subconsciously are always looking for a fertile woman to have kids with.. If a man is comparing two woman the younger one will nearly always win because she will have a higher chance and more opportunities to bare Children..

Even guys who are not looking to have Children will prefer the younger just out of instinct..

That's right, we men are all biological robots, blindly operating on the programming of our instinct. All that stuff you have heard about humans being intelligent is a lie. We all just do what our instinct tells us to do.

 

[melita916]

I’m guessing some men want a younger woman to have someone to show off. “Hey look. I got game. I got me a younginz.” I’m not referring to those who have a couple of years difference. I’m talking about 10-15+ yrs.

But I’m not a man so what do I know lol.

 

[Lynx]

I’m guessing some men want a younger woman to have someone to show off. “Hey look. I got game. I got me a younginz.”

But I’m not a man so what do I know lol.

This could be. There's a cocky young man... well, allegedly he's a man... at w*rk who was deriding me for still being single. He said it was evidence that I "had no game."

I said, "Dude, think about it. I'm 41 and still single, I don't have any blatantly obvious defects... you think me being single is an ACCIDENT? This is intentional!"

He just shook his head and kept muttering about "no game." Apparently game was all his brain could process.

 

[Ruby123]

I’m guessing some men want a younger woman to have someone to show off. “Hey look. I got game. I got me a younginz.” I’m not referring to those who have a couple of years difference. I’m talking about 10-15+ yrs.

But I’m not a man so what do I know lol.

I have to agree with this.

 

[zeroturbulence]

Maybe because Adam was created first, then Eve.

 

[Tinkerbell725]

Because younger is more attractive. That is why most women would want to drink from the fountain of youth. But there are some men who are hesitant to have a much younger wife because there is a big chance that younger wife will cheat on him and will replace him with someone younger.

 

[OneOfHis]

Because younger is more attractive. That is why most women would want to drink from the fountain of youth. But there are some men who are hesitant to have a much younger wife because there is a big chance that younger wife will cheat on him and will replace him with someone younger.

I pursued an older woman.... now she is my fiancee...


Age was a bigger deal to her than to me, I wanted her because of her character, beliefs, and love for Jesus..


Maybe the reason some men prefer a younger woman is because it is harder for a younger man and older woman to function in a healthy marriage with the younger man as the spiritual leader when he may have less experience.


(took awhile for my lady to accept that the age difference was insignificant, she was wise and wanted to make sure she found someone she felt could be a good husband to her...)

 

[Tinkerbell725]

I pursued an older woman.... now she is my fiancee...


Age was a bigger deal to her than to me, I wanted her because of her character, beliefs, and love for Jesus..


Maybe the reason some men prefer a younger woman is because it is harder for a younger man and older woman to function in a healthy marriage with the younger man as the spiritual leader when he may have less experience.


(took awhile for my lady to accept that the age difference was insignificant, she was wise and wanted to make sure she found someone she felt could be a good husband to her...)

SMD is very blessed to have such a rare guy like you who were very persistent. Congratulations. You are also blessed because she is a sweet and kind woman and pretty too. Beauty fades as we grow old but love is what makes the marriage last.

 

[mailmandan]

I’m guessing some men want a younger woman to have someone to show off. “Hey look. I got game. I got me a younginz.” I’m not referring to those who have a couple of years difference. I’m talking about 10-15+ yrs.

But I’m not a man so what do I know lol.

I know older men who love to show off their younger trophy wives. Maybe that's where they find their significance. I'm very happy with my wife who is the same age as me and I would never trade her in for a younger woman!

 

[melita916]

I know older men who love to show off their younger trophy wives. Maybe that's where they find their significance. I'm very happy with my wife who is the same age as me and I would never trade her in for a younger woman!

My husband is almost 4 yrs older than me. I’m very happy!

 

[Didymous]

That is unusual, it generally is the other way around.

That's very common in Indian country.