I was just telling someone the other day...you have good days & bad when it comes to the ex. For me I think I should be Mr. Super-Christian at times & just "man-up"...then someone reminded me..."dude,do you realize,it's only been 1 yr & 2 months since you split for your ex?" - "How is that enough time to heal?" I laughed it off & said,"Well,yeah but I have God!"...of course this person is not a christian & said.."God or no God..yer a retard if you think he's gonna wipe away 10 yrs of memories ,poof..like that!" lol I guess there's a bit of truth in that.