love is like drivng a car in many ways
1. Most people think they are experts at it jsut because they been doing it a long time
2. to become better, study how others drive and see what works and what doesnt
3. read the best instruction manuals to make yourself better
4. make sure you are comfortable in the car and well strapped in with good visuals of all the surroundings
I dont drive a car that way!
I have never had people say they are experts at it. Its more like how to navigate the roads, especially city traffic that is the main issue.
I dont study how others drive, I follow the road code when I learned, and had an instructor and got lots of practice.
There is only one road code in NZ.
the fourth one is, I only really feel comfortable driving my own car not other peoples, because I know how to handle my own car. I can drive others but, I am used to driving my own. I have to say though automatic transmission is good for people like me. I learned on a manual, but Im a much better driver on an automatic. I know some like to boast manuals are better, but its just too much to think about changing gears.
also I am not someone who is so vain they refuse to wear glasses, I generally wear them all the time and I have special transitions so it cuts down the glare, yes sometimes you have to face into the sun heading west
The main thing is to observe the speed limits, not get too impatient, and have an idea of where you are going. The more you go places the more familiar you get with roads and traffic conditions.
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