I admire Mikhal for being pro-active though, don't you Mike? I wonder whether some Christian men (and consequently women) are on their own because they don't even try to find a spouse and are complacent about it( I'm not suggesting you are btw). But I do think it's very positive and bold in a good way to do what Mikhal is doing here, and also humble of him. Afterall it does say, 'he who FINDS a wife finds a good thing'.....
And in response to your lovely statement about women- I would say they also want to be pursued😊👌