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Lanolin

Lanolin

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its the Love Boat and Tourist is the captain

(thats why his name is Tourist, right?)

sailing into a harbour near you

I just sort the wheat from the chaffs thats all

I heard one of my friends is getting married end of this year to the guy shes living with, which is how it works in my country at least, so they dont 'date' as such but they do set a date for the wedding which is the only time when they will both get dressed up.

But I notice other ppl do it differently, go on lots of expensive dates first, quickly marry and then decide on a divorce date later when they run out of money and find out they cant stand each other.
 
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Lanolin said:
its the Love Boat and Tourist is the captain

(thats why his name is Tourist, right?)

sailing into a harbour near you

I just sort the wheat from the chaffs thats all

I heard one of my friends is getting married end of this year to the guy shes living with, which is how it works in my country at least, so they dont 'date' as such but they do set a date for the wedding which is the only time when they will both get dressed up.

But I notice other ppl do it differently, go on lots of expensive dates first, quickly marry and then decide on a divorce date later when they run out of money and find out they cant stand each other.
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I think it's all about commitment at the bottom of your heart. Some Christians are anti living together. There are very good reasons for this! However if the commitment isn't there, everything will fall part no matter how they go about it.
 
Lanolin

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well its not easy leaving someone youve lived with for many many years

but it would probably be easy to leave someone you dont actually know very well and only met a few times before marrying, despite divorce being expensive and a hassle, and the thing with divorce is the judges make it so that your ex is not allowed to see or speak to you and you are never under the same roof and breathing the same air

At least that is how it come across, I have known so many divorced wives only refer to their ex husbands as 'the father' or 'the dad' or 'the ex' like they dont even dignify this person with a name. And many of these were church going christian women, so, Im not really sure why they marry these guys who go cheat on them?!

and then theres commited marriages but only one side, while the other party is just as committed to leave it - in order to commit to someone else. I think some think well as long as I have one woman at a time and they are not in the same room or bed together simultaneously, its ok. ?! er..
 
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Lanolin said:
well its not easy leaving someone youve lived with for many many years

but it would probably be easy to leave someone you dont actually know very well and only met a few times before marrying, despite divorce being expensive and a hassle, and the thing with divorce is the judges make it so that your ex is not allowed to see or speak to you and you are never under the same roof and breathing the same air

At least that is how it come across, I have known so many divorced wives only refer to their ex husbands as 'the father' or 'the dad' or 'the ex' like they dont even dignify this person with a name. And many of these were church going christian women, so, Im not really sure why they marry these guys who go cheat on them?!

and then theres commited marriages but only one side, while the other party is just as committed to leave it - in order to commit to someone else. I think some think well as long as I have one woman at a time and they are not in the same room or bed together simultaneously, its ok. ?! er..
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Well... You know a man can't have too many women... Your all so lovely to be around all the time! Hahah

Proverbs 25:24

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Better to live on a corner of the roof
than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

ANYWAYS. Sorry, umm, The laws in the USA are different.

I don't think there is anything wrong with unmarried guys and girls living together, as long as they aren't having sex.

I'm not implying that it is a wise thing to do.
 
Lanolin

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ha

well sure men and women have kinda figured out that having sex with each other isnt always conducive to living together peacefully! lol

oh well, unless someones figured out how cloning works, women will continue to do put themselves at risk I suppose

anyway, dont mean to put a damper on anyones virtual date. It is now the 21 st century

Jesus was born of a virgin and that was 2000 years ago, and nobody else seems to have done it since.
 
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Lanolin said:
ha

well sure men and women have kinda figured out that having sex with each other isnt always conducive to living together peacefully! lol

oh well, unless someones figured out how cloning works, women will continue to do put themselves at risk I suppose

anyway, dont mean to put a damper on anyones virtual date. It is now the 21 st century

Jesus was born of a virgin and that was 2000 years ago, and nobody else seems to have done it since.
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God created sex, and that is the way it's supposed to work.

As far as Jesus goes, well He's God. Enough said. LOL
 
soberxp

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Lanolin said:
ha

oh well, unless someones figured out how cloning works, women will continue to do put themselves at risk I suppose
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In the past, cloning technology still needed a woman's womb, but now a new technology has come out of the artificial womb.人造.子宫
 
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soberxp said:
In the past, cloning technology still needed a woman's womb, but now a new technology has come out of the artificial womb.人造.子宫
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really?
test tube babies still need to go into a real womb - they arent born from out of a tube - that is news to me
 
Lanolin

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I always thought kangaroos had it better, built in pouches
 
Lanolin

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Seeking-Christ said:
God created sex, and that is the way it's supposed to work.

As far as Jesus goes, well He's God. Enough said. LOL
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really
so why do women get raped? Not sure I understand that one. especially...date rape.
 
tourist

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Seeking-Christ said:
Well... You know a man can't have too many women... Your all so lovely to be around all the time! Hahah

Proverbs 25:24

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Better to live on a corner of the roof
than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

ANYWAYS. Sorry, umm, The laws in the USA are different.

I don't think there is anything wrong with unmarried guys and girls living together, as long as they aren't having sex.

I'm not implying that it is a wise thing to do.
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The thing is, unmarried guys and girls living together are almost certainly are having sex.
 
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tourist said:
I agree with you on this regarding the face to face. Also, there is a lot you can learn beforehand by online / phone calls / mail, etc.
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You can find out online if a member of the opposite sex is into music you don't like or other deal breakers. I won't be dating a Justin Bieber fan. Sorry. :LOL:
 
Robertt

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Now if only I could get to chat to someone , and grow towards a virtual date

*sit s in corner reading Song of Songs while waiting*
 
Lanolin

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Dont look at me...I'm just a bystander, Im actually not here to date :cool:


this is all tourists idea....
 
Robertt

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Lanolin said:
Dont look at me...I'm just a bystander, Im actually not here to date :cool:


this is all tourists idea....
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No wasn’t looking at you . In fact not looking anywhere really as I can’t see anyone lol
ithink God trying to say “ you can’t always get what you want ,,,.,.,. “
 
Lanolin

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Or, you see TOO many people, get overwhelmed, and decide to just stay at home

like when you go shopping and cant see anything that you really want to buy but end up picking the nearest thing out of desperation it will get sold out and then finding it wasnt what you wanted after all.

also maybe you have that friend who takes you out shopping and. pressures you to buy stuff when all you want to do is go for a walk because, whos got the money and theres nowhere to put it anyway

yea THAT friend

It took a few years to actually tell her, um, actually, I dont really like shopping THAT much. She just assumed cos she liked it, that I liked it. I didnt, I just tolerated it. worst thing for me is to be trapped in a shopping mall with no money.
 
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