Talking to Men - Women of opposite sex

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Heart_Melody

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what type of girl movies you are you planning on watching :)
Hm let me think -

I would want to watch
Pride and Prejudice, "mean girls" , "50 First Dates" , The Devil Wears Prada, The Proposal, My big fat Greek Wedding, Sweet Home Alabama, Crazy Stupid Love, The Notebook (debatable), Lala Land, Legally Blonde...

Any of these you are interested in?
 
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Heart_Melody

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In all honesty I think it goes that you need to have common interests, and be willing to learn about the other person’s interests too.

Like I’m a gal that likes Jane Austen period romances (“girly films”) but I also like Godzilla, which is more of a “guy film” I guess.
I am super into all the nerdy stuff - I am a huge Adventure and Action movie gal and I love historical movies - but there is something about all the movies that make you wanna dress in pink and jump and squeal and talk "like thiiiiiiiis" and eat cute foods xD
 
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Heart_Melody

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Based on your post history I would say that you're as cool as a cucumber.
Haha you are cooler - what's cooler than a cucumber?
Ginger? You are Cool as Ginger on Ice yo :cool:
 
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Heart_Melody

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Don’t tell him, just act like it :)
You gotta be more specific with me - imagine you give me instructions and I ACTUALLY COMPLETELY take it literally. And if I am not supposed to you gotta let me know lol
 

ArtsieSteph

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I am super into all the nerdy stuff - I am a huge Adventure and Action movie gal and I love historical movies - but there is something about all the movies that make you wanna dress in pink and jump and squeal and talk "like thiiiiiiiis" and eat cute foods xD
Yup anime foods, I feel ya. But yeah I like watching action movies but dress girly so it confuses guys 🤣🤣🤣 Like “Yeah bruh! I can be dressed flatteringly and still like watching stuff get blown up!”
 
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Heart_Melody

Guest
My favorite boy movies are probably

The fast and Furioussesssss (how ever many there now are)
Jet Li movies
Red
Gladiator <3 and Braveheart and the Patriot
remember the titans
Gangs of New York
Matrix
Some of the James Bond movies
OH and the PUNISHER! that was a great movie
 
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Susanna

Guest
Girlfriend! let's go out together and get all the comfort things and watch aaaaall the girl movies and talk about our Dream Boys!
Then you have to watch “Like In Heaven” with Reese Witherspoon. Thats a feel good movie lol.
 

BrotherMike

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You gotta be more specific with me - imagine you give me instructions and I ACTUALLY COMPLETELY take it literally. And if I am not supposed to you gotta let me know lol
Im a big believer in actions speak louder than words. If you are interested in getting to know them, you’ll ask questions. His beliefs, likes, dislikes, interests, goals, food, where he likes to go out, what he likes to do when inside, what to do for fun, wants kids, personality, etc etc. Another suggestion is go on google and type questions to ask on a first date.
 
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Susanna

Guest
My favorite boy movies are probably

The fast and Furioussesssss (how ever many there now are)
Jet Li movies
Red
Gladiator <3 and Braveheart and the Patriot
remember the titans
Gangs of New York
Matrix
Some of the James Bond movies
OH and the PUNISHER! that was a great movie
Those are girl movies?😁
 

BrotherMike

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Hm let me think -

I would want to watch
Pride and Prejudice, "mean girls" , "50 First Dates" , The Devil Wears Prada, The Proposal, My big fat Greek Wedding, Sweet Home Alabama, Crazy Stupid Love, The Notebook (debatable), Lala Land, Legally Blonde...

Any of these you are interested in?
I will probably lose my man card but I like chick flicks more than man movies. I like movies that reaches the heart.
 
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Susanna

Guest
You gotta be more specific with me - imagine you give me instructions and I ACTUALLY COMPLETELY take it literally. And if I am not supposed to you gotta let me know lol
Girl, you and me need to go about and flap some serious lashes to get this thing straightened out😊😁.
 
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Heart_Melody

Guest
I will probably lose my man card but I like chick flicks more than man movies. I like movies that reaches the heart.
YOU ARE A KEEPER!
I am honestly crying 3 seconds into the beginning of the movie because I read WAY too much into it and movie music gets me in my feels all the time - even in boy action movies lol
 
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Heart_Melody

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Im a big believer in actions speak louder than words. If you are interested in getting to know them, you’ll ask questions. His beliefs, likes, dislikes, interests, goals, food, where he likes to go out, what he likes to do when inside, what to do for fun, wants kids, personality, etc etc. Another suggestion is go on google and type questions to ask on a first date.
I read this book on how to Catch you a Man and get Married in 9 steps.
And it was super stupid of course - but some of the stuff seems to be correct.

One of the things it said was
Ask the man ALL the questions when your having dinner - and let him talk all night long. when he remembers the night he will realize how much fun he's had because he just talked about HIMSELF all night long. LOL He don't wanna listen to you.

:ROFL:
 
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Heart_Melody

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Girl, you and me need to go about and flap some serious lashes to get this thing straightened out😊😁.
Girl I know you got it - you have a grandson after all xD
LOL Teach me your ways MASTER!
 
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Susanna

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Then you have to watch “Like In Heaven” with Reese Witherspoon. Thats a feel good movie lol.
Oh sorry, it is “Just Like Heaven”😁🤦‍♀️.