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Roh_Chris

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Is it manly for men to shower using shower lotion and loofah? Just wondering ... :confused:
 

Lynx

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Beats me. I don't know if it's manly or not. I use dawn dishwashing liquid for shampoo.
 

lil_christian

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I'm assuming from this post that your dad is seeing someone? How are you doing with this Lil?
Yeah, he's met someone. He started talking to her around Labor Day weekend. They've been seeing each other ever since. I met her last month, and she's really nice. But Dad told me recently if he gets married to her, he'll be moving to where she lives. Then he told me recently that I couldn't take Mocha or Titan with me if I went with him. He'll be giving my sister and her fiance the house. I could stay with them, get rich quick, or marry rich. Those are pretty much my only options. And if he marries her it'll probably early next year, probably Spring. Soo yeah.
 
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kenthomas27

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Yeah, he's met someone. He started talking to her around Labor Day weekend. They've been seeing each other ever since. I met her last month, and she's really nice. But Dad told me recently if he gets married to her, he'll be moving to where she lives. Then he told me recently that I couldn't take Mocha or Titan with me if I went with him. He'll be giving my sister and her fiance the house. I could stay with them, get rich quick, or marry rich. Those are pretty much my only options. And if he marries her it'll probably early next year, probably Spring. Soo yeah.

Are you for real lil??
 

Oncefallen

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Yeah, he's met someone. He started talking to her around Labor Day weekend. They've been seeing each other ever since. I met her last month, and she's really nice. But Dad told me recently if he gets married to her, he'll be moving to where she lives. Then he told me recently that I couldn't take Mocha or Titan with me if I went with him. He'll be giving my sister and her fiance the house. I could stay with them, get rich quick, or marry rich. Those are pretty much my only options. And if he marries her it'll probably early next year, probably Spring. Soo yeah.

I'm just concerned with how you are taking this pending change especially considering how soon (no judgement intended) your dad became involved. I was hoping to give you the opportunity to process your own feelings about it.

We all love you here and want to be sure that you're ok.
 

lil_christian

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Are you for real lil??
Yep, real as they come. He said I could stay with them if I wanted, I just couldn't take my pets, aka fur babies. Therefore, I really don't want to.

I was pretty upset earlier, but right now, I'm just sort of going to wait things out and not worry over things that haven't happened yet. I think if he saw things from my point of view he'd think differently. He's lonely. That changes a lot of things.
 
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kenthomas27

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Yep, real as they come. He said I could stay with them if I wanted, I just couldn't take my pets, aka fur babies. Therefore, I really don't want to.

I was pretty upset earlier, but right now, I'm just sort of going to wait things out and not worry over things that haven't happened yet. I think if he saw things from my point of view he'd think differently. He's lonely. That changes a lot of things.
Well, you know, keep us updated on this. Things change. Things have a way of changing all the time. You're sooo big for considering his feelings and his loneliness when all I thought about was yours. And Mocha - i've never laid eyes on the dog and already have all this time and prayer invested in him! What???How could he leave the dog behind? I'm just thinking out loud, but you're not on your own Lil. Not while i'm around - not while all these people are around, just so you know. Not while our God is around.

Anyway - this will be ok. You'll see.
 
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MissCris

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Praying for you Evie...God will make a way *hugs*

Also praying for the people of Ferguson, MO tonight.
 

lil_christian

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Thanks everyone for your prayers. <3

(Also, seoul - I just saw your Private chat message! Sorry I couldn't respond before you left. *hugs*)
 
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Yep, real as they come. He said I could stay with them if I wanted, I just couldn't take my pets, aka fur babies. Therefore, I really don't want to.

I was pretty upset earlier, but right now, I'm just sort of going to wait things out and not worry over things that haven't happened yet. I think if he saw things from my point of view he'd think differently. He's lonely. That changes a lot of things.
I don't know if I can properly articulate how proud I am of your maturity and grace in this situation Lil. You are amazing. God is obviously with you, and your actions glorify him.
 

lil_christian

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Thanks, Grace. I'm heading off to sleep now, everyone. Goodnight, and thank you for your encouragement and prayers. They're appreciated. God will provide.
 
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HLR

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Nothing wrong with loofahs but I'm more of a wash cloth person.
 

maxwel

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I always thought a loofah was for some kind of penance.