Ok, sir. You have come to a fun / game of sorts thread to post your concerns. A few of us have given you our thoughts on how you can address your concerns, and that is really all we can do.
At this point, we have Resumed the name of the game, which is a question thread, where there is nothing we can do other then ask questions, which we are using humor (which is from Almighty God) in which to enjoy this Blessed day the Lord has Blessed us with. Please do not fault people, after having done all they can do for you, to enjoy company with each other and to help lighten our day with humor. Feel free to joy in with the game, should you wish. But, we are also free to enjoy this time together. This is a hard day in age for many and / or they are going through something in their lives, and humor helps. Thank you sir.