This was a really interesting thread to read.
And
@seoulsearch - you are a beautiful, intelligent, godly, and amazing woman. Whatever the condition of your hair, I have no doubt that the right man for you will love you and cherish you just as you are. So
please don't worry about your hair. Really.
As for me, I have an interesting experience with this topic.
Before I got saved, I was
very into long hair on men. Like that would always draw my attention in a big way and I would frequently have crushes on guys with long, straight hair (especially musicians, lol).
But then when I got saved, that changed, and I stopped being attracted to long hair on men. It even started to seem a little inappropriate. Which to me, confirms the Bible verse that Ben shared about how it's a shame unto a man to have long hair, and a glory for a woman to have hers long.
So currently my personal preference is for them to
have hair, but the length or style doesn't really matter as long as it looks good on them. If it's long but they really love it and it looks good on them, I think I would be fine with it (but I am not certain).
As a general rule though, I'm not a big fan of "modern" styles with shaved sides, etc. and I also don't really like dreads.
I have a strong preference when it comes to color though -- dark brown. Ginger hair on men on the other hand, feels literally incestuous lol (I'm a ginger myself).
As for facial hair, it's a definite plus. I find mustaches very attractive. A short, trimmed beard can be nice, too.
tfw my future husband has none of the above lol