How Long Has Everyone Here Been Single?

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How Long Has Everyone Here Been Single?

  • I have been single my whole life--I have never had a significant other.

    Votes: 37 26.4%

  • A few weeks.

    Votes: 4 2.9%

  • A few days to 3 months.

    Votes: 5 3.6%

  • Over 3 months to 6 months.

    Votes: 7 5.0%

  • Over 6 months to 9 months.

    Votes: 3 2.1%

  • Over 9 months to a year.

    Votes: 7 5.0%

  • Over a year to 2 years.

    Votes: 11 7.9%

  • Over 2 years to 4 years.

    Votes: 18 12.9%

  • Over 4 years to 6 years.

    Votes: 6 4.3%

  • Over 6 years to 8 years.

    Votes: 9 6.4%

  • Over 8 years to 10 years.

    Votes: 5 3.6%

  • Over 10 years.

    Votes: 5 3.6%

  • Over 10 years to 15 years.

    Votes: 6 4.3%

  • Over 15 to 20 years.

    Votes: 11 7.9%

  • I have been single for over 20 years.

    Votes: 12 8.6%

  • Other--I have something to explain in my post.

    Votes: 6 4.3%

  • My definition of being single is... (please share in your post.)

    Votes: 3 2.1%
  • Total voters
    140
SarahM777

SarahM777

Banned
#101
Dec 26, 2012
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#101
Widowed here a bit over 13 years,and was only married for 7 so..... quite a while.
 
Descyple

Descyple

Senior Member
#102
Jun 7, 2010
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#102
I've been single ever since I asked my fiance to sign a prenuptial agreement!!!

I wonder if that had anything to do with it???
 
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iTOREtheSKY

Guest
#103
#103
Descyple said:
I've been single ever since I asked my fiance to sign a prenuptial agreement!!!

I wonder if that had anything to do with it???
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Well...did she? lolz
 
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foreverChanged242

Guest
#105
#105
ooops, I should've seen the first option in the poll. I've been single all my life!
 
Descyple

Descyple

Senior Member
#107
Jun 7, 2010
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seoulsearch said:
Yup. It's pending on how well he holds her purse in public without complaining (or writing a thread about it.) ;)
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In that case, she's got a loooooooooooooooooooooong wait coming her way!!!

I rather be caught wearing my pride on my sleeve then with a women's purse in my hand!!!
 
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Ascension

Guest
#108
#108
agirlandherguitar said:
Was Zero being funny? Because I found that post funny in a sad way.
Anyways, I've never been attached to anybody. Never had a boyfriend, never kissed or held hands. Nevaaaaah! Why? I dunno, really. But it I think part of it comes to the fact that I never cared or wanted a boyfriend until I was about 21 or 22. At that point I was experiencing what a 14 year old girl experiences - silly, nonsensical crushes on random people and the dreaded "he doesn't have to be a Christian!" attitude. That drastically changed in the past couple of years... so I have to say that I never really wanted a real God given relationship with a man until a few months ago. Hmm... maybe I have my answer as to why I'm single, haha.
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There is a time for everything .
I wish you find the love of your life one day ,
because there is someone for all of us .
 
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gord2112

Guest
#109
#109
Divorced in 09 then had a relationship in 11 with the sweetest and most beautiful woman in the world. We were talking marriage and looking at houses. Then one sunday morning she called me as i was getting dressed for church and ended it. Have technically been single a year however have just in the past few months have i become emotionally single
 
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OceanGrl

Guest
#110
#110
How long have I been single, it's been about a year and a few months, but it definitely doesn't feel that long.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

Senior Member
#111
Aug 2, 2009
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agirlandherguitar said:
Was Zero being funny? Because I found that post funny in a sad way.
Anyways, I've never been attached to anybody. Never had a boyfriend, never kissed or held hands. Nevaaaaah! Why? I dunno, really. But it I think part of it comes to the fact that I never cared or wanted a boyfriend until I was about 21 or 22. At that point I was experiencing what a 14 year old girl experiences - silly, nonsensical crushes on random people and the dreaded "he doesn't have to be a Christian!" attitude. That drastically changed in the past couple of years... so I have to say that I never really wanted a real God given relationship with a man until a few months ago. Hmm... maybe I have my answer as to why I'm single, haha.
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I can't believe I haven't answered this yet. :p Yes, I was serious but I find that sometimes I'm really glad that I'm single and sometimes I feel like I'd do anything to have a girlfriend.
 
TigerScent777

TigerScent777

Banned
#112
May 24, 2013
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#112
...single is when you are not in a relationship; as opposed to 'unmarried'. When you are in a relationship, you are 'not single' but are 'unmarried'...When you are married - you are in a relationship as well as being married...:cool:
 
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Tintin

Guest
#114
#114
I'm 29 years old and I've been single for close to 30 years now.
 
Cee

Cee

Senior Member
#115
May 14, 2010
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#115
yearsssssss... funny how God works, went from date-a-holic to dateless.
 
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kaytyndy

Guest
#116
#116
hahahaha i have never been single... i am alone with the Lord
 
DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

Senior Member
#117
Apr 27, 2011
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#117
Tintin said:
I'm 29 years old and I've been single for close to 30 years now.
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Cee said:
yearsssssss... funny how God works, went from date-a-holic to dateless.
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Both of you are good, God fearing men. I'm not sure why such sweet and kind guys such as yourselves are single, but I pray The Lord will bring you strong and wonderful Christian women. Hopefully y'all won't have to wait much longer.
 
DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

Senior Member
#118
Apr 27, 2011
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Let's see… my last relationship was 4 years ago, but I've had dates and what not since I broke up with my ex. However, those potential guys didn't result in a relationship.
 
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nettie

Guest
#119
#119
Single for four years and counting. :rolleyes:

Hard to explain what it means to be a single, but for the past 4 years, I never dated potential boyfriends and didn't entertain suitors.
 
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drumsrmybeat47

Guest
#120
#120
I've been lonely (single) for 3 1/2 years. My precious soul mate has been with the Lord for that long. How I miss and love her.
 
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