for me God comes first even over family...this is hard for marrieds to accept cos they cant follow Jesus when they got so much demands on their time.
So I understand what Paul is saying. When people marry its like eveyone is dependent on you,if you are female its worse because your husband can be like a baby, wanting your body all the time, not to mention your children who cant even feed themselves for the first few years or so. even if they can start cooking meals by the time they reach 12 years its not really advisable to let them loose in the kitchen when they are toddlers.
So I understand what Paul is saying. When people marry its like eveyone is dependent on you,if you are female its worse because your husband can be like a baby, wanting your body all the time, not to mention your children who cant even feed themselves for the first few years or so. even if they can start cooking meals by the time they reach 12 years its not really advisable to let them loose in the kitchen when they are toddlers.