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I am hesitant to say my body type preference because it seems like once I say it, it will sound like I'm ruling out anyone who doesn't have that body type. I'm currently in a relationship with someone who doesn't look like a male model (and I don't look like a female model either, so who cares, right?). He is handsome to me because I love him.
Once in a while I'll see a celeb or a random stranger with a body I can appreciate and looks like my idea of perfect. It doesn't mean I prefer them to other people for looking like that. It just means if I were to pick up a pencil and paper and draw fictional people, I'd aim to draw my person with that kind of shape.
Picking out a human companion isn't like picking out a fruit at the grocery store, because many other things about them can so easily override your surface preferences.
In a society where so many of us are pressured to either look perfect, or hide our physical flaws, it's easy to be made to feel insecure for not living up to somebodies preference. Even though we all know deep down we shouldn't let that affect our self-worth.
Once in a while I'll see a celeb or a random stranger with a body I can appreciate and looks like my idea of perfect. It doesn't mean I prefer them to other people for looking like that. It just means if I were to pick up a pencil and paper and draw fictional people, I'd aim to draw my person with that kind of shape.
Picking out a human companion isn't like picking out a fruit at the grocery store, because many other things about them can so easily override your surface preferences.
In a society where so many of us are pressured to either look perfect, or hide our physical flaws, it's easy to be made to feel insecure for not living up to somebodies preference. Even though we all know deep down we shouldn't let that affect our self-worth.
Oh, and btw, I'm 6'5 and weight 300lbs...based on the latest American census data (whose people tend be bigger in most respects of the word than the rest of the world...), that means most women should fit in that category just fine.
FASTSTATS - Body Measurements
FASTSTATS - Body Measurements