Firstly,I was being sarcastic when I said we can always pray they re-marry & get rid of our last names...and if you carry on further into the thread you will see that I do not regret my divorce or the fact that I was married to her. I have told you before that I regret marrying an unbeliever. I should not have done that as a believer myself. Plain & simple. Her & I had many good times & memories I will have. I don't regret those. I regret my own shortcomings & my not following God in the way I should have been. I think this is normal to regret past relationships & sometimes to ponder what went wrong. In the same breath I am thankful to God for allowing me to go through all of that so that I could come to the end of myself..I learned a ton of what to do & not to do. I pray that I remember those things,as to not make the same mistakes again.