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Bella37

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It could be the computer
It could be my chin chin is in the way of my eyes!! Then again it could be my eyes are so tired that I can not see the computer through lack of sleep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yes?
 
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You are right about the lack of facial expression and little nuances, especially with a member who just joined. After awhile you have a pretty good idea what the facial expression would be if you could see their face and start picking up on their little nuances and quirks.

My main thing is that I intend not to post anything that would hurt someone's feelings, even if I feel like I'm in the right.

I would rather be happy than right. I learned that in a TV show many years ago called Doogie Howser MD. Doogie and his best friend Vinnie were arguing about something, I think that it had to do with pizza. Anyway, Vinnie told Doogie that Doogie is probably right and to avoid hurt feelings he said that he would rather be happy than right.

I thought that was a wise thing to say. I'm not sure if that's biblical or not but that's how I roll 'em.
When considering this I am reminded that although we have no intention to do or say anything to hurt people, sometimes our actions and words do have a way of reaching those places that carry hurts. Even though it seems funny to us at the time, we need to be careful that we’re not stepping on anybody’s toes. Or – when we think we are saying something that will make the other person happy – it has the opposite effect and things can get very quickly out of control. Sometimes I’ll read one of my posts – especially on those fun Ruin the Dates and similar threads and I think to myself, well I hope nobody is reading this who could be offended – especially any visitors that might not realise that we are making fun and not being serious – that’s worth considering!
I do love those threads though – they are so funny! :D
I feel like saying sorry to anyone whom I may have hurt their feelings by saying something that I thought was funny but touched them in a raw place of hurt - please forgive me if you are reading this! (((HUGS)))

I do love you all lovelies!
 
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It could be my chin chin is in the way of my eyes!! Then again it could be my eyes are so tired that I can not see the computer through lack of sleep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yes?
Or maybe it’s because you are standing on your head :D :D :D so funny hahaha

Disclaimer – no harm meant haha
 
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And while we're at it:



We’re got all the good advice here eh

The most important thing though – and it goes without saying but I will say it anyways – unless we include God in the picture then there aint no use building that house Amen!

Make God the centre of your life and everything else follows J
 
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Bella37

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GOOD MORNING EVERYONE!

GODS LOVE 2 ALL!

Bella XO :) <><<

 

blue_ladybug

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Good morning? It's 4 p.m. here. Almost my bedtime.. LOL
 
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Good morning? It's 4 p.m. here. Almost my bedtime.. LOL
Hello lovely – well it’s 8.18am and I’m about ready to go to work soon. Nice to see you on here and you should drop by more often – would love to have a chat with you. J

 
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Hahaha I just caught that – almost your bedtime so funny hahahha. I like to go to bed early too but lately I’ve not been able to step away from the forum here because it’s been so much fun – and enlightening hahaha.

 

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When considering this I am reminded that although we have no intention to do or say anything to hurt people, sometimes our actions and words do have a way of reaching those places that carry hurts. Even though it seems funny to us at the time, we need to be careful that we’re not stepping on anybody’s toes. Or – when we think we are saying something that will make the other person happy – it has the opposite effect and things can get very quickly out of control. Sometimes I’ll read one of my posts – especially on those fun Ruin the Dates and similar threads and I think to myself, well I hope nobody is reading this who could be offended – especially any visitors that might not realise that we are making fun and not being serious – that’s worth considering!
I do love those threads though – they are so funny! :D
I feel like saying sorry to anyone whom I may have hurt their feelings by saying something that I thought was funny but touched them in a raw place of hurt - please forgive me if you are reading this! (((HUGS)))

I do love you all lovelies!
Since I have joined I probably have averaged making at least one apology a month. :)
 
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GOOD MORNING EVERYONE!

GODS LOVE 2 ALL!

Bella XO :) <><<

And we await our Bridegroom – the one and only – Jesus YAAAAAAAAYYYYY!! So happy to finally meet Him in person so to speak haha I’ll probably faint!


Are our lamps full today? :D
 
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Since I have joined I probably have averaged making at least one apology a month. :)
Well let’s make this a place where we can say sorry J Or anything else that may be bothering us or something on our hearts that we’d like to express in a place of safety
 

blue_ladybug

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Nope...lol.. Once the sun goes down, I get tired. Then I take my meds around 5 pm and those make me more tired. By 8 pm, I'd gone for the night.. lol.. off to zzzzzzz land..


Maybe you work night shift?...yes? no I'm thinking!:cool:
 

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Nope...lol.. Once the sun goes down, I get tired. Then I take my meds around 5 pm and those make me more tired. By 8 pm, I'd gone for the night.. lol.. off to zzzzzzz land..
I'll be going to bed around that time too as I have to go back to work tomorrow morning. I'm usually up by 4 AM on the days that I work.
 
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Nope...lol.. Once the sun goes down, I get tired. Then I take my meds around 5 pm and those make me more tired. By 8 pm, I'd gone for the night.. lol.. off to zzzzzzz land..
Well you’ve still got around 4 hours of fun left - let’s see what mischief you can get up to in that time haha
 
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I'll be going to bed around that time too as I have to go back to work tomorrow morning. I'm usually up by 4 AM on the days that I work.
I’ll bet that’s why ya eat those nutritious brekky’s that you do :D