When things go out of control, people throw up their hands and say, "Jesus take the wheel!" I tried this once when my car was sideswiped and sent spinning on ice, and it came to rest in the berm. I mean, that's as far as it went. Jesus didn't drive me the rest of the way to where I was going. He just got me out of the spin, and stopped my car after it was out of the line of traffic. I literally took my hands off the wheel and lain down on the bench seat like, "if I die, I die." lol.
Where was I going with this? Idk, just trying to stop the spinning maybe, but I did want to say that, perhaps, we have more power/influence than we aren't fully aware of. Our words have power, i.e. bless and curse not, and we might be more successful 'steering' whether away from or towards the direction of the roads we are traveling on.
I could offer some examples but I'm trusting yous get it.