I find it odd for a man to describe his wife as evil. Maybe he has lost respect for her. But if someone were married to an evil wife, might he not get frustrated and come out and say that. I'm not saying she is, but I could understand it.
To Kevinbrown,
I don't agree with those who say to leave your wife. You pray for advice. Do you pray consistently for her? My wife has gone through some phases where she has been negative and was hard to get along with. Sometimes she'd get like this during PMS or pregnancy. During one pregnancy, she would argue with me all the time. She's go around hurt. One time we had a conversation, and I said something just so neutral. It wasn't even negative. But she started crying.
Part of it was pregnancy hormones, but part of it was her attitude toward me. That night, when she got upset over basically nothing, she disappeared. She had gone to a friends house, who told her to call me, an older woman from church who was empathetic and was the type to be encouraging. So I told her if she wanted to talk with her friend and pray and come back n the morning, that was okay. She would come back before the kids went to school.
Then I prayed. I prayed a long list of things that were bothering me about my wife, things we hadn't been able to talk about without her getting upset. She goes to this church program a few days later which is supposed to help believers overcome issues in their lives. Then she asks me to sit on the couch next to her. I thought she was going to want to argue again, but she seemed so pleasant toward me. So I sat down, and she told me I was a good husband, to start off with, the opposite of what I'd been getting from her.
Then she told me how the Lord had told her all these things about herself, and walked me through my prayer list, basically. I had maybe 7 or so things I'd prayed for. She addressed five of them. If I prayed a paragraph, she had two pages worth of insights on each topic I'd prayed. She talked about the Lord speaking to her about the other two things I asked the Lord to speak to her about within a few weeks after that.
My wife repented. For a while after that, she'd be standing around the house crying. I asked her why. She'd tell me about some harsh thing she said to me. Our marriage was a lot better. I couldn't talk my wife into seeing certain things she needed to change. But I could pray for her and the Lord did the work. There is a place for correcting one another. I am not saying you shouldn't do that. If you can't, God can still break in and help.
Anyway, pray for your wife and love your wife. Be patient with her.
Is you wife just angry at you or everyone?
