I Don't Like Men

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Butterflyyy

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You-should dislike the action that happened not the gender, all these Xs shows your not willing to listen to anyone, have haven’t placed a like or said thanks for posting to no one, I think you should be banned
The op needs a lot of understanding just fyi🙂
 
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As I mentioned I don’t think the person is a woman
 

Butterflyyy

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Indeed and God’s perfect love comes in many flavors, some nice some not so nice
God is tender hearted and full of mercy, long suffering... and yes He is lots of other things but He commands us to love, and love is patient and kind.
Jesus also told us to turn the other cheek, go the extra mile and love our enemies. I'm certain the op did not intend to hurt or offend all the wonderful Christian brothers on this forum🙂
 
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She has a teenage daughter-how many messages of hers have you read? Maybe it's best to leave it be if you don't have facts.
what are the facts have you met the person in person
 

Butterflyyy

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I can't believe how Christians are behaving in this situation...
Be wise as serpents, gentle as doves... blameless
God is watching you all ridicule someone who is potentially suicidal. If I am wrong it doesn't matter, if you are wrong it DOES. You're all acting like bullies. It's horrible. And definitely not Christlike or obedient to His Word.
 
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Wow after reading this thread this resembles more of a war zone than a Christian forum. It's true that we can't truly verify who's who on an anonymous platform. But we shouldn't judge someone based on a feeling we have either. Let's give the benefit of the doubt and try to understand, if they are lying about everything that's between them and God. We can take the higher road.
 
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I can't believe how Christians are behaving in this situation...
Be wise as serpents, gentle as doves... blameless
God is watching you all ridicule someone who is potentially suicidal. If I am wrong it doesn't matter, if you are wrong it DOES. You're all acting like bullies. It's horrible. And definitely not Christlike or obedient to His Word.
Yea I can be ruff around the edges.

P.S if you going to quote me just quote me and not all that’s for another post if you choose too
 
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I can't believe how Christians are behaving in this situation...
Be wise as serpents, gentle as doves... blameless
God is watching you all ridicule someone who is potentially suicidal. If I am wrong it doesn't matter, if you are wrong it DOES. You're all acting like bullies. It's horrible. And definitely not Christlike or obedient to His Word.
If your going to call people bullies do in another post not in the same post you quote me.
 
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Wow after reading this thread this resembles more of a war zone than a Christian forum. It's true that we can't truly verify who's who on an anonymous platform. But we shouldn't judge someone based on a feeling we have either. Let's give the benefit of the doubt and try to understand, if they are lying about everything that's between them and God. We can take the higher road.
Rgr that, in my experience the only people who say they don’t like a person because of their gender are gay men or gay women, not because of some abuse at least that’s my experience
 
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So I will apologize for calling the person a male, there is a measure of doubt I have to accept
 
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I can't believe how Christians are behaving in this situation...
Be wise as serpents, gentle as doves... blameless
God is watching you all ridicule someone who is potentially suicidal. If I am wrong it doesn't matter, if you are wrong it DOES. You're all acting like bullies. It's horrible. And definitely not Christlike or obedient to His Word.
And I’ll tell you another thing I’ve learned in life, it’s rare a person who speaks about being suicidal actually do it, the vast majority of suicides happen because no one knew the person was that depressed, the majority of people who do it don’t tell anyone about it.
 

Ghoti2

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And I’ll tell you another thing I’ve learned in life, it’s rare a person who speaks about being suicidal actually do it, the vast majority of suicides happen because no one knew the person was that depressed, the majority of people who do it don’t tell anyone about it.
Sorry, I'm afraid that's not accurate. Other people may not be listening, but the endangered people almost always try to reach out to someone. We would be fools to only look for someone saying, "Hey, I'm thinking of killing myself." before we realize they are in trouble.
 
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Sorry, I'm afraid that's not accurate. Other people may not be listening, but the endangered people almost always try to reach out to someone. We would be fools to only look for someone saying, "Hey, I'm thinking of killing myself." before we realize they are in trouble.
I knew five people that did it, one guy I saw the day before and many other days there was never a word mentioned about being depressed or anything, the other people I knew same thing so that’s 0-5 on the ones I knew