I Don't Like Men

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NotmebutHim

NotmebutHim

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Help, I'm stepping into the twilght zone............................ :eek:
 
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Locoponydirtman

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NotmebutHim said:
Help, I'm stepping into the twilght zone............................ :eek:
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I think it's best that we take the advice given and voluntarily close this thread. There seems to be some real problems here and we don't want to exacerbate them so please let's for the sake of all leave this thread. I hope a mod closes it soon. Thank you for your cooperation.
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi

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Don't worry I won't kill myself over your comments and no I don't want the thread deleted. You guys have to live with what you've shared. My conscious is clear.
 
melita916

melita916

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misunderstandings. miscommunications. tis the internet.

perhaps a moderator will lock this thread.
 
Magenta

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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
You guys have to live with what you've shared. My conscious is clear.
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So is mine :) I love what @Jimbone shared about expectations. We all have them, we are all let down by them, and we all let others down too. Even so, it is impossible not to have some kind of expectations in any given situation. Gaining some perspective on this, being able to let go of our expectations, and having a sense of humor, are invaluable.

 
Magenta

Magenta

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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
I have more right, I started it.
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You have no more right to post in any thread than anybody else, regardless of the fact that you started it.

Regardless of your sense of entitlement, also.

If you want the thread to die, it would help for you to take the lead in not posting.
 
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selfdissolving

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7seasrekeyed said:
to the op:

the best answer for you seems to be that if and when you are ready to be honest and honestly want help there is probably some help to be had for you

but I would suggest you consult a professional who will not put up with your games

yes yes I know

a big fat x no doubt :rolleyes: childish
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there's a check mark for ya.
to even things out a little
;);););)
 
Jimbone

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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
This is not about me being in a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship. This is about humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty and so many other things people tend to be towards others and even more so on broken people, like most have been on here. And no I did not say everyone so before anyone says I put everyone in a basket, read again. And lol all the remarks are coming from Christian brothers and sisters lol 😂.

I do not nor did I make anyone go on a tangent about why I don't like men (which really if anyone read my post would see it is also directed towards women) by not stating specifics, Ben. Many have assumed and were quick to call me many things based on a very honest truthful statement I made. The lack of specifics doesn't justify the behavior from many that responded. I am in no way upset or childish by marking with an x to statements or comments I don't agree with? Lol why the hell are they there then? People are full of it.

I think everyone can agree that humanity is vile, people's heart is so consumed in being superior and looking down on others and no it's not about me complaining about my experiences. Everyone has either been looked down or looked down on others.

Lol feel free to carry on.
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I actually see where you're coming from, and know how fast assumption can be made and pile up. That was why I mentioned the fact you never even stated what bothered you at all, and was why I couldn't address you topic any deeper without knowing what's bugging you. I do agree with what you're saying and besides that I believe God is big enough and the answer to every question, so I don't understand the criticism of you OP here either. You need to honestly and openly confront these issues in search of the truth. You have to.

So in this comment you say "This is not about me being in a relationship or wanting to be in a relationship. This is about humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty and so many other things people tend to be towards others and even more so on broken people, like most have been on here", good here's a start. See I did think you were talking about the OP in relationship terms, the title is "I don't like men", so naturally people are not going to automatically think " humanity being indifferent, cold, hostile, condescending, rude, haughty". See I know I misunderstood you, but in your defense I didn't see a whole lot of questions before all the advice. I do also see the very problem I was talking about before too when you say things like "And lol all the remarks are coming from Christian brothers and sisters lol", see you are disappointed in us because of your expectation of how we should act towards you. To be very honest I agree with you about how fast we as Christians are to assume and condemn some people some times. The biggest thing I hate is how fast here on CC (because it's the only site I go to) we are to start telling married people with problems "leave them", "you need to take the kids and go", I mean it's so quick and automatic, before any deeper questions or really knowing anything about the other side the "leave him/her, chats start. I really don't like that and in a way see this as what happen to you here kind of. Only in this case it seems you kind of like it and are egging it on. I don't know that, and it's of course just my opinion, but I believe what you are seeing clearly is the fallen nature of man. This is why we need Jesus. I'm am truly interested in hearing what you have to say here. What's on your mind?
 
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7seasrekeyed

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Butterflyyy said:
You are my brother if you belong to Christ. Why so rude?😞

And prayer is vital.
And it is preferable to all the hard-hearted ridicule I have seen on this thread.
I am not suggesting you are not praying I am exhorting us all to pray so nothing wrong with that
You have a point with someone doing something to help but you can't be sure that the support of other christians on here isn't making a difference.
Dear me why can't you be kind??
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uh

no

I am not your brother

my husband didn't marry a man and I have never been confused as being one or mistaken by how I look for being one

dear me, why can't you stop judging everyone and everything and possibly ask questions

you do this in every thread you grace with your presence

make your own points please instead of trying to make points with all your suggestions :rolleyes:

I'd post a pic but I don't want any more guys wondering I'm the right one
 
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selfdissolving

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7seasrekeyed said:
uh

no

I am not your brother

my husband didn't marry a man and I have never been confused as being one or mistaken by how I look for being one

dear me, why can't you stop judging everyone and everything and possibly ask questions

you do this in every thread you grace with your presence

make your own points please instead of trying to make points with all your suggestions :rolleyes:

I'd post a pic but I don't want any more guys wondering I'm the right one
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you're doing a pretty good job being a stick in the mud today, just to let you know

i think somebody woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning!!!!!
 
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morefaithrequired

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Locoponydirtman said:
A funny thing about counseling; you can't cancel one person about what someone else should be doing. You can only counsel a person about how to deal with themselves.
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i think we should stop trying to cancel people. I'm certainly not a qualified canceller.
 
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Locoponydirtman

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morefaithrequired said:
i think we should stop trying to cancel people. I'm certainly not a qualified canceller.
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I don't know that it's possible to cancel anyone.
However I was talking about counseling. How on Earth can you say we should not counsel people, you have no knowledge of the Bible, no life experiences to draw wisdom from, no Holy Spirit to give discernment.
 
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