I can deal with people disagreeing with my beliefs..
The problem in this thread was not that we disagreed in regards to belief..
My problem was with another poster stating that i hold positions that i do not hold. Positons that i never expressed. Plus the fact that this person chose to do so in a thread started by someone seeking information about Christianity.. So not only did they make a false allegation against a Christian ( whom they now declare is not a brother in Christ ) they provoked contention using this tactic in front of a seeker.. And thus undermined Christianity in the eyes of the seeker..
If a person truly believes someone is giving bad advice to a seeker then the option of sending a private message to the seeker is open to them to counter what they see as bad advice without causing contention on the seekers thread.. They can also opt to send a private message to the person they believe is giving bad advice to start a one on one discussion..
I have found over the last 18 years of being involved in Online Christian forums and chat rooms that my worst experiences have been in dealing with calvinists.. They are often combative and toxic towards anyone who does not agree 100% with their T,U,L,I,P doctrines.. Eventually they will make statements like you're not a Christian ( not a brother in Christ ) as we have seen above..
Again I'm amazed at the way this conversation has continued to progress. I am truly sorry to those following this.
First, I cannot understand why you continue to misrepresented me after getting so upset about it yourself. I never claimed to be a Calvinist, never even mentioned TULIP, and even apologized after misrepresenting your position and asked you questions to get clarification on what it is that you actually believe. I made every attempt to be cordial and to continue this discussion amicably. I would hope that someone following this discussion would see that. I am surprised to hear that Calvinists call you unsaved based on your arminianism (I'm sure you wouldn't use that title but I'm using it for shorthand). Most reformed folks I know, and I know many, accept folks like yourself based on you belief in Sola fide. I digress, but that comment was surprising.
Next, again I never mentioned TULIP in my reasoning. I said I don't count you as a brother because of your denial of the gospel, as Paul did is Galatians. The atonement (Christ's work) is central to the gospel. One who does not believe the gospel is unsaved, as it is the power of God unto salvation. That is the point that I made and I would ask, as you have, not to be misrepresented.
When it comes to why I corrected you publicly here instead of in private, it is because your post is public. Anyone, especially the seeker who made this thread, could see your post and to not answer it for them publicly could lead to confusion. I answered to protect the young and untaught from your heresy and misinterpretation. I tried to make that clear as we continued to dialogue. I care about them as much as I do you, friend. I don't want anyone to fall into heresy band to meet God with a lie on their lips. I want you to believe the gospel so that I may rejoice bin calling you my brother. I take my marching orders from Jesus and the apostles to go and preach the gospel, discipling all nations. You can attempt to declare my motives to everyone (which is odd since you were so upset when you were misrepresented) but I will answer for myself.
My final comment in this post will he once again to summarize what I've seen and call you to repentance. In this dialogue you have still not provided an answer by my critique. No situation from scripture, no exegesis, no defense. You have been unkind and accusative toward me even when I apologized, more than once. You did the same thing you accused me of, in multiple posts putting words in my mouth and misrepresenting who I am, what I preach, and what my motives are. Even when someone else entered the discussion asking for clarity you simply pointed the finger at me, lied completely about me in the discussion, and called me toxic. All I can say is wow. Genuinely I mean that. Just wow. I can't think of a more obvious display to show you are not a brother in Christ and need to repent. You play the victim, accuse others, refuse to accept apologies, misrepresent and even lie about people, cannot show where scripture supports your teaching, refuse rebuke, and finally resort to name calling when all is said and done. That is completely unchristian behavior.
I don't claim to be perfect here, and I'm sure my language comes across harsh. I love my Lord and His gospel. I will not stay silent when I see it twisted. I will defend it and preach it until my last breath. As I do I will make mistakes, and for those I will apologize and make amends as best I can. I don't claim to be a hero and that you are some villian Adstar, but I want you and everyone to see what has happened here. I didn't have to say you weren't my brother, you evidenced it by your confession and behavior. Anyone following this can see that and knows better than to trust your teaching in the future. But I love you, man. I not saying all this to be your judge or condemn you to hell or anything. This a call to repentance. Look back over your posts and mine, see if what I say is true. If I'm lying, show me. Show everyone. I want you to.
Please repent my friend. See your sin and self-righteousness and repent. Come to our sovereign Lord and His mercy. Trust in Him alone.
May God be the Judge