Two Abortions and No Regrets:
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So I'm looking for the perfect group? MY COMPLAINT WHATS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE WHO CHOOSE TO BELITTLE OTHERS WHO ARE DESPERATELY IN NEED we are all God's kids but some seem to think their are better because they have already begun their walk with the lord while others are still lost, ever heard of the millennium?
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I want the faith you have, and I say that respectfully and sincerely because where I am in life at this moment, I have no problem belittling and chastising mouthpieces of infanticide. That said, make no mistake, I do indeed pray for such people. God has obviously turned around even the most wretched, and he is to be glorified for it.
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The woman that is being spoken of in this thread uses her position as a public platform to extol the virtues of murdering babies.
I think we should all be a little indignant about that. I also think that we should call it what it is.
And that she should be called out for what she is doing.
I dearly hope from God above that if I am found in the commission of egregious sin, that someone calls me on what I'm doing. That someone says Chad! That thing that you are doing is sin and this is why, and you need to repent.
Because it is conviction from the word of truth that causes people to repent.
And I'll know that when I do repent and I look around and I see the people that enabled me and did not call me out on what I was doing wrong and did not offer me correction and did not offer me the opportunity to repent. That those people hate me. because it is absolutely not love to allow someone to go on in their sin and not call them to repentance and not speak out against the thing that they were doing.
I think we should all be a little indignant about that. I also think that we should call it what it is.
And that she should be called out for what she is doing.
I dearly hope from God above that if I am found in the commission of egregious sin, that someone calls me on what I'm doing. That someone says Chad! That thing that you are doing is sin and this is why, and you need to repent.
Because it is conviction from the word of truth that causes people to repent.
And I'll know that when I do repent and I look around and I see the people that enabled me and did not call me out on what I was doing wrong and did not offer me correction and did not offer me the opportunity to repent. That those people hate me. because it is absolutely not love to allow someone to go on in their sin and not call them to repentance and not speak out against the thing that they were doing.
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No, I don't know you. But it seemed the complaint in the preceding page or two, was over the thread respondents being critical of the woman in the article for having the abortions in the first place.
I thought the person criticising the thread respondents was the creator of the OP, and so that that misconception I do apologize to you.
But the criticism of the respondents began appearing more and more just being critical of those who believe abortion is wrong, since I didn't see a lot of unduly harsh comments overall.
I thought the person criticising the thread respondents was the creator of the OP, and so that that misconception I do apologize to you.
But the criticism of the respondents began appearing more and more just being critical of those who believe abortion is wrong, since I didn't see a lot of unduly harsh comments overall.
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Abortion is always going to be a highly emotive issue.
I work in health care and have had to care for women before & after an abortion. The only thing we can do is give them all possible options and are not allowed to influence them. This can be a struggle sometimes, but that is my job and my legal obligation to the patient. I'm not there to judge them. As health carers, we look after all sinners - murderers, post abortion women, paedophiles, criminals, etc.
I don't think anyone can know how scary it is to find out you have an unplanned pregnancy, at any age. Being very young would send you into a panic. Those who have very religious parents don't tell them, or fear a backlash from their friends etc. Of course the only way to stop pregnancy is to abstain, so I think Ms Milano's excuse is a little lame, very naive childish. You should not be having sex shortly after an abortion; that can be very dangerous, and of course contraception fails - none of it is guaranteed to be 100% fool proof. I also don't believe that nobody should ever not take contraception. Having too many babies is also very dangerous for your health.
Since legal abortion is law where I live, I as a health carer must follow the law. If abortion wasn't allowed, the consequences can be devastating - believe me, I've cared for women who nearly died from not having sterile abortions, and many around the world today still do. Allowing abortion is a 'way out' for being irresponsible for alot of women, though some may have just forgotten to take their OCP or thought their time of the month was OK to have sex. Whatever the reasons or endless arguments re abortion, I think that if someone chooses to have an abortion they should not be judged, but just given all the supoort and encouragement to help them make the right decision. If they change their mind, & decide not to abort, they should also be given heaps of support and encouragement to be brave and have that child.
Perhaps if we weren't so adamant re NOT having abortions, and being overly judgemental, more women/kids would open up re their pregnancies and talk to us at least - get a conversation started re pregnancy and everything else - then they would choose not to have an abortion.
I work in health care and have had to care for women before & after an abortion. The only thing we can do is give them all possible options and are not allowed to influence them. This can be a struggle sometimes, but that is my job and my legal obligation to the patient. I'm not there to judge them. As health carers, we look after all sinners - murderers, post abortion women, paedophiles, criminals, etc.
I don't think anyone can know how scary it is to find out you have an unplanned pregnancy, at any age. Being very young would send you into a panic. Those who have very religious parents don't tell them, or fear a backlash from their friends etc. Of course the only way to stop pregnancy is to abstain, so I think Ms Milano's excuse is a little lame, very naive childish. You should not be having sex shortly after an abortion; that can be very dangerous, and of course contraception fails - none of it is guaranteed to be 100% fool proof. I also don't believe that nobody should ever not take contraception. Having too many babies is also very dangerous for your health.
Since legal abortion is law where I live, I as a health carer must follow the law. If abortion wasn't allowed, the consequences can be devastating - believe me, I've cared for women who nearly died from not having sterile abortions, and many around the world today still do. Allowing abortion is a 'way out' for being irresponsible for alot of women, though some may have just forgotten to take their OCP or thought their time of the month was OK to have sex. Whatever the reasons or endless arguments re abortion, I think that if someone chooses to have an abortion they should not be judged, but just given all the supoort and encouragement to help them make the right decision. If they change their mind, & decide not to abort, they should also be given heaps of support and encouragement to be brave and have that child.
Perhaps if we weren't so adamant re NOT having abortions, and being overly judgemental, more women/kids would open up re their pregnancies and talk to us at least - get a conversation started re pregnancy and everything else - then they would choose not to have an abortion.
Doesnt make sense she said she did what she knew to do to prevent pregnancy but preventing preganancy does not mean doing the stuff that makes you pregnant, but just taking a drug to stop it or wearing a condom. Thats like trying to stop traffic by wearing a flourescent vest.
Of course, people ought not to believe in anything an actor or actress says, because they pretend and lie for a living!
Of course, people ought not to believe in anything an actor or actress says, because they pretend and lie for a living!
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I think people ought to have more education in this area, and parents need to tell their children just how babies are made. Obviously ms milano just didnt undertand this one when she was young. And probably didnt tell her parents either.
In hollywood, abortions are a thing like having a root canal. Sometimes the studios sponsor them. That is what they used to do in the old days. The weird thing is they need to have fake pregancies for characters in Their movies and then ask hospitals to provide real newborn babies for the birth scenes.
In hollywood, abortions are a thing like having a root canal. Sometimes the studios sponsor them. That is what they used to do in the old days. The weird thing is they need to have fake pregancies for characters in Their movies and then ask hospitals to provide real newborn babies for the birth scenes.
It's called reproductive system, not "I do what I want then kill babies when they occur" system. Should be handled with great responsibility, because it has great consequences. It's widely known that hormonal birth control doesn't work for all women, so why are you putting all your hopes into it and do not even consider backup methods, especially after you saw it didn't work out for you... but backup methods, that would be an inconvenience I guess and we can't have even a minor inconvenience. Second abortion? I've no ears for their boohoos. I really get annoyed at these things. It's not how family planning is done. The amount of precaution and abstinence should be directly proportional with how disastrous would the pregnancy be for you. If you absolutely cannot accept the slightest chance of having children then abstinence it is.
